This board is useless when it comes to a playerette?

[BangBus]

So what happens when you come across a playerette who knows the game probably betta than u????
If you play the waiting, mystery game with a playetette, she'll next your azz...........then what??

just curious. Im currently dealing with 1

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

As Anti-Dump said, when two people have a strategy, the game will end with a stale mate, you BOTH loose.

So, either get played, NEXT her, or be totally open with her, and just simply refuse to play games. (that can be a hard thing to do, especially as people who know how to play games also know how to make you play the game)

 

[rgeere]

Just out manipulate and use her own game against her; she's obviously a very smart girl considering it takes intelligence to be a good player. Be on the ball about it.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

There's one way!

As Anti-Dump said, when two people have a strategy, the game will end with a stale mate, you BOTH loose.

So, either get played, NEXT her, or be totally open with her, and just simply refuse to play games. (that can be a hard thing to do, especially as people who know how to play games also know how to make you play the game)

Women never give up on their little games. So, there's only one way to win!

MOVE ON!

I know it's hard, but she'll lose, because you'll be the one doing the moves here, you'll be the one in control. Be sure she'll be crushed, but its you or her!

And when you move on, don't look back, move on forever. If you go back, be sure she'll accept just to crush you and she's gonna win.

Remember, walking away. It's a weapon we have to use, and this is the perfect moment for it. Hardly ever a girl sees a man walking away from her, that's why It'll be so "damaging" to her image, especially if she's a hot chick!

You or her. You've got the principle, now it's up to you man!

 

[NRM]

Take every move that she does as offensive and ignore her and turn away. Her goal is to lure you in and make you become hers. Don't let that happen. If she does a player move like cancel a few dates on you or whatnot, treat her more coldly than she's treating you. Applies to all situations.

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

hey buddy! did you steal my name or what!!!!

poser

 

[squirrels]

Waiting and mystery?? Ask yourself this question...WHAT are you waiting for?

You want to know how to deal with a REAL woman? Be a REAL man. You can be mysterious and aloof all you want, but if you aren't DOMINANT and MASCULINE in her presence, no amount of mystery is going to nab her. Before any girl will chase you, you have to give her a REASON to.

And you're probably one of the first to complain when GIRLS play games.

 

[KiInCollege]

I've found that the inexperienced tend to play games. They often make a mistake and are caught playing the game.

The women in my past have never accused me of playing games per se; rather, I've only been accused of being a player.

DJs act optimally - they do not appear to play games. When you act optimally, you do not bother wasting time with games teenagers played on each other in high school. You take direct, appropriate action. Your women are never too impatient when anticipating your next move.

A girl that is experienced in dating will appreciate that a DJ knows what he wants and will take the steps to get her. That is my answer to this thread. I will add that this board is never useless and appeals to understanding life's maxims as well as seducing women.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Hey raptured,

I was here since 2003, Really.

I'm the original one, sorry raptured! lol

BTW, beautiful name phoenix!

 

[Blue Phoenix]

ONE

 

[Blue Phoenix]

TWO

 

[Blue Phoenix]

THREE

Forget this!

 

[NaturallySelected]

Originally posted by BangBus
So what happens when you come across a playerette who knows the game probably betta than u????
If you play the waiting, mystery game with a playetette, she'll next your azz...........then what??

just curious. Im currently dealing with 1

Nah, I don't think she will. In fact I KNOW she won't. Female players have a different goal in mind, to control as many men as possible. Use them to do sh!t, etc. If she thinks she has no affect on you she will go nuts. I know from personal experience, I dated one, I kept her interested for a long time then my feelings got in the way, I went AFC and got played.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Female players

"Female players have a different goal in mind, to control as many men as possible".

Right on the mark!

Female players are what we call "female narcissists". They're control freaks.

The only thing "female players" love is themselves, and to them people (especially men), are nothing more than objects to be used/manipulated and discarded. They use seduction/sex to control, to take advantage and frustrate the opposite sex.

"A somatic narcissist uses his/her body to seduce. It is the act of seduction that matters, not the actual physical sex that sometimes follows. In other words: the somatic narcissist derives his/her Narcissistic Supply more from his ability to discernibly influence others (tease) than from actual sex (let alone, from a romance, or a relationship). This is so much like Histrionic PD (HPD) or in effect, NPD where the Source of Narcissistic Supply was the body.

(In the following sentences male=female)

A somatic narcissist might also derive his NS from cultivating his body, observing his nutrition and health (up to the point of developing an eating disorder - see http://narcissism.cjb.net/faq65.html - and hypochondriasis), exercising, competitive sports. In short: anything related to the body.

Somatic narcissists are often infidel and serial lovers".

They're aliens to me. Do what they do, use them and discard them. Or ignore them!

 

[SealTeamSix]

Why deal with pros? Find someone fresh ...

 

[Blue Phoenix]

"Why deal with pros?"

They are much more sick than pros. Their power come from the others' weakness! Even when the others are not week, they seek for some "sweet spot" so they can drain you.

They can't mess with people "higher" than them, so they mess with the weaker ones!

Watch the movie "cruel intentions"!

"The narcissist has no significant or meaningful others in his life. They are often sad and malcontent. Their lives are a mess and often characterized by frequent losses (divorces, dismissals, failures, conflicts with authorities and the law, bankruptcies and so on).

The narcissist idealizes, then uses, then devalues, then discards. She is the epitome of the society of waste and consumerism - with other humans as the raw materials. The narcissist colonizes, then abandons. She's viral qualities."

They're absent minded sadists and they victimize everyone around them. Those in contact with them need guidance and help."

They were DEEPLY frustrated/alienated (no love) when childs, so they don't know what is it like to have empathy/love/affection! Narcissists HATE happiness and joy and ebullience and vivaciousness and, in short, life itself.

WALK AWAY from those people, they're very charming but it's just a mask, a facade.

"If some man were to say to your daughter: 'Here's the deal, sweetie. For several months or so, I'm going to pretend to be everything you ever wanted. I'll shower you with attention, affection and all manner of stuff to make you feel special. Then, once I know you're depending on me as your significant other, and have made a commitment, I'm going to quit pretending and be who I really am. I'm going to start treating you really badly, I'll say insensitive things, I'll lie, I'll cheat, I'll be really cruel, possibly humiliate you in public. Hey, I might even beat you. Your job will be to figure out what happened and do everything in your power to restore the relationship to what it was, until you either die, try to kill yourself, or collapse and get sent to hospital, which will be pretty funny because there's no chance whatsoever I'll ever pretend to be that 'nice guy' again - and by the way, it WAS a pretence. So what do you say, sweetie? Do we have a deal? Several years of hell in exchange for a few months of fantasy?'

 

[DJ_Dork]

Women are stupid.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Women are stupid.

Some are, some are not!

We shoudnt make such generalizations!

BEWARE!

 

[Okra]

What manly women. They should be dykes.

 

[Grey Fox]

The Narcissist is a lot easier to exploit than you think. All that charm they exude is used to lure you in, we all know this. But why is the question. If their primary goal was to just hurt you they would just be a sadist. Their primpary goal, desire, and ultimately their blinding drive is to gain your affection and devotion. They will keep drawing you in pretending to get closer and closer to you but seem just out of reach by a hair. Experienced narcissists also pride themselves in their charm and ability to ensnare so many poor souls.

To break the Narcissist you must first become their target. You will know this when there attention and charms begin to be focused on you. Once they are committed to luring you in they will find it difficult to give up their pursuit of you until they get what they want. Your devotion, attention and affection. By knowing to withhold these things they crave, their charms and actions will become more brazen, some will drop the mask completely and become unhinged at the fact that someone has resisted their siren's call if you will. They will not know what do to, simply slow play everything with them. Seem to lose interest one minute and then show a the promise of a spark next. This pattern can break them, and to test this try mentioning things that would really excite you or you are just dying to have, see or do. If they deliever it to you, you know they are desperate. Show tiny signs of affection once in a blue moon and it should serve to continually stoke their desire and appetite for you. But never ever make yourself so open as to think they have finally cracked you.

-Grey Fox