"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This Attention wh0re pissed me off!

sapphire

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Next time you have a ho in your/her apt and she is half naked as in your case there is no need for verbal communication.

You simply take her by the hand and lead her into the bedroom; or join her in the shower as the case maybe.

Women like men who take the initiative. You failed to take action. She sensed your hesitance and bailed out.

I agree to a certain extent that guilt may have been a factor. But, if you had led, she would have forgotten her borefriend and you would have been fycking like a porn star.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by sfalexi
Well she got the drop on ya. Sucks. I think most fellas woulda fell for that one.

Look at it this one, it's only one night wasted. Bummer, but we don't ALL win ALL the time (No matter how much people might say otherwise on this board).

And at least now now you know not to believe HER again.

Alexi
great advice

it happens to all of us every now and then

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