"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This Attention wh0re pissed me off!

sapphire

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Next time you have a ho in your/her apt and she is half naked as in your case there is no need for verbal communication.

You simply take her by the hand and lead her into the bedroom; or join her in the shower as the case maybe.

Women like men who take the initiative. You failed to take action. She sensed your hesitance and bailed out.

I agree to a certain extent that guilt may have been a factor. But, if you had led, she would have forgotten her borefriend and you would have been fycking like a porn star.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xiola

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Originally posted by sfalexi
Well she got the drop on ya. Sucks. I think most fellas woulda fell for that one.

Look at it this one, it's only one night wasted. Bummer, but we don't ALL win ALL the time (No matter how much people might say otherwise on this board).

And at least now now you know not to believe HER again.

Alexi
great advice

it happens to all of us every now and then

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