"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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third date: go feed the ducks

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hello.

is it lame to go to a nice park and feed the ducks etc?


Thanks.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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It is if you think it is.
If she likes being around you then what should it matter what the two of you are doing?
Just be enthusiastic and have fun with it.
 
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Well, when coming up with a date idea you want to try for a couple of things:

First of all, what you don't want to do is make her think that this date activity is being done for the sake of her. You want her to think that it's being done because you want to do it, and that she's just along for the ride. If you can make her believe that you're feeding the ducks because you want to feed these ducks and aren't doing it for the sake of having a date activity with her, then go for it.

Secondly, and perhaps more obviously, the date activity must be fun for her. Personally I do not think feeding the ducks (with maybe a picnic thrown in) is all that fun. It will probably just devolve into a date based around conversation and devoid of any action... and it's best to avoid those. It's boring and stressful for both parties to continuously keep up conversation. When one-on-one it's best to aim for some sort of action date. Go play some pool or something. Even a movie date would be better.
 
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