CrashOverRide
Don Juan
Yep... I'm thinking something sporty like a coupe... Not in the range of a Bimmer or Mercedes but maybe like a Infiniti or Acura? What cars do you all like out there?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The car has Paddle shifters, meaning it can operate in automatic or "manual" mode so I'm guessing your uncle was driving it in Automatic. I have only rode in the backseat of one(V6 model), which is terrible mind you, and my buddy was using the Paddle shifters and you could hear the engine roar at a decent noise, it's at a volume that you can hear but it could be louder in my opinion. I could only feel the transmission, not hear it(RWD, meaning I was basically sitting on it). Which is a little disappointing seeing how it's a performance car.amazingswayze said:I rode in my uncle's Hyundai Genesis Coupe today. It's a slick ride, the engine makes almost no noise at 70 mph.
The Lexus 300 models, IS300 and G300, share the 2JZ engine in the Toyota Supra. This means that their engines are bullet proof... When you buy one of those cars, you're paying for the Engine- which is worth it.amazingswayze said:He was thinking about buying a Lexus Coupe or something of that nature. When you buy one of those cars, you pay for the name... It's cool, but nothing special.
$50k!? I would recommend the Chevrolet SS, Jaguar XFR, or even a used BMW M3/M5 for that price!amazingswayze said:His Genesis Coupe is almost fully loaded for $50,000 and it comes with a 7-year 100,000 mile warranty. This is one of the best warranties you can get.
Bottom line, you don't have to get a flashy car to ride in style. :rockon:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I second this, I didn't bring it up because it's a 4 cyl. The Scion FR-S is basically Toyota, meaning it holds its value extremely well. Not only that, the FR-S get's 25MPG+ with AUTOMATIC and over 30 with Manual. That's crazy. It also handles extremely well... The only complaint is the lack of power, there's nothing you can really do to increase it without making the car unbalanced by the way...the_stig said:4. Subaru BR-Z / Scion FR-S !!!