"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A friend of mine has a GXR bike and has been urging me to get one. He makes some great points.. They are extremely fuel efficent, they are cheap, they are fun. I haven't ever ridden a bike but I can't imagine it being the hardest thing on earth.

Anyway, I have decided to go ahead and get one.. worst case senerio, I don't like it, and I can sell it and loose a couple of hundred bucks becuase of negative equality, which is a risk I am not too concerned about.

What are some good recomendations?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Get a trick bike and make sure it has pegs so a girl can stand on the pegs behind you.
 

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Take the motorcycle safety course, and wear quality gear. You can easily spend as much on safety gear as a used bike costs. A professional racer can drop a bike going 100+ mph and walk away, because he is covered in leather, plastic, and kevlar. The same crash would mean skin grafts and a lifetime of physical disfigurement if you were wearing a t-shirt and shorts like the average idiot.
 

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backbreaker said:
A friend of mine has a GXR bike and has been urging me to get one. He makes some great points.. They are extremely fuel efficent, they are cheap, they are fun. I haven't ever ridden a bike but I can't imagine it being the hardest thing on earth.

Anyway, I have decided to go ahead and get one.. worst case senerio, I don't like it, and I can sell it and loose a couple of hundred bucks becuase of negative equality, which is a risk I am not too concerned about.

What are some good recomendations?
A GSX-R isn't ideal for a beginner, their steering geometry is set-up to be very responsive, and the power wil kick your ass if you don't respect it. Many people have started on race-replica style bikes, but many many more have failed miserably too.

The bike I usually recommend for those starting out is the Suziki SV650S. They're stupid easy to ride, but they're still enough fun that you won't be looking to upgrade in a month or two when you start to really get the hang of riding. Plus, you can find the 00-01 models cheap, $2000 avg.

I'm thinking about getting another bike myself. I've had an SV650, a Yamaha R6, a Ducati 916, and now I want to get a Yamaha V-Max, chop it up and weld it back together until it looks like this...

Hardy Daytona
 

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i know about all the saftey gear... and I know myself to know thet ype of accidents I could and could not get into. I never see myself doing wheelies at 100mph ont he highway, or really just swearving though traffic like a bat out of hell, but at the same time, bikes are fun to ride

will look into it, thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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af just bought a new Honda 599 and loves it

http://www.mc-huset.no/honda/news06/599.jpg

It's better to get a bike with less of the expensive plastic. The half-faired bikes like the 599 are very popular. I had a 91 Suzuki gs500e that was very similar to my friend's new Honda
http://motoplanete.com/essais/essai500GSE.jpg

Fairings only help at speeds over about 130 mph anyway. The limiting factor above those speeds is air resistance. That's why the v-max has a top speed of only about 140 despite the massive engine.
 

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was thinking about buying a cruiser, but Im going to build an indycycle instead.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
af just bought a new Honda 599 and loves it

http://www.mc-huset.no/honda/news06/599.jpg

It's better to get a bike with less of the expensive plastic. The half-faired bikes like the 599 are very popular. I had a 91 Suzuki gs500e that was very similar to my friend's new Honda
http://motoplanete.com/essais/essai500GSE.jpg

Fairings only help at speeds over about 130 mph anyway. The limiting factor above those speeds is air resistance. That's why the v-max has a top speed of only about 140 despite the massive engine.
http://www.mc-huset.no/honda/news06/599.jpg

Here in Brazil we call "her" Hornet! Take a look:
http://www.motonline.com.br/testes/teste-zangada.html

To you americans it´s very cheap to buy one, but here it´s considered a "rich" guy´s bike. Here it´s mandatory to wear a crash helmet, in the states it´s not. I strongly advise you to wear one, don´t risk your life man.

You should buy a more "modern" bike like the XT. It´s based on an Eletronic Fuel Injection system and its panel is LCD. With it you can go anywhere, even rural areas.
http://www.motonline.com.br/testes/teste-xt660r.html
http://www.motomag.com/spip/diaporama.php3?id_article=87&id_document=1356
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lovesorrow said:
Here it´s mandatory to wear a crash helmet, in the states it´s not. I strongly advise you to wear one, don´t risk your life man.
Actually it is required in almost every state, either for every rider (most states) or riders under a certain age, usually 18 or 21. Very few states have no helmet laws at all.
 

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No I'm thinking about building something like this:

http://www.indycycle.net/main.htm

but with a more robust motor, better suspension, and paddle shifters.

I'm into metal fabricationg and glassing. My neighbor that owns a welding company is teaching me how to weld on the weekends, and I;ve taught myself how to glass (any idiot can.)
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
No I'm thinking about building something like this:

http://www.indycycle.net/main.htm

but with a more robust motor, better suspension, and paddle shifters.

I'm into metal fabricationg and glassing. My neighbor that owns a welding company is teaching me how to weld on the weekends, and I;ve taught myself how to glass (any idiot can.)
I swa something similar to that at SEMA or one of the Motor Trend shows here. Looked nasty, and they were claiming something like 1.4-1.5 lateral Gs with it. The only downside, $60k for something that I could build in my bathroom.

I agree that any idiot can lay glass, but very few can make it look and function half-decent. The actual physical part of it is easy, design and concept take talent :up:
 

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I've made my mind up that I want to die going 160 mph either on land or falling out the sky in a small homebuilt plane.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Planes are stupid, Helis are better. (I can't find a "sticking my tounge out at you" smilie, but rest assured, I'm thinking it :D)
 

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S1NN3R said:
I swa something similar to that at SEMA or one of the Motor Trend shows here. Looked nasty, and they were claiming something like 1.4-1.5 lateral Gs with it. The only downside, $60k for something that I could build in my bathroom.

I agree that any idiot can lay glass, but very few can make it look and function half-decent. The actual physical part of it is easy, design and concept take talent :up:
Are you talking about a campania T-Rex? That's the only other 3 wheel motorcycle engine based vehicle that I can think of off hand (that's also around 60K). Those things are sick, they handle really well and it's a two seater so you can have a friend ride with you. I think you can have a V twin put in it but the more popular one is the inline 4.
 

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Are you talking about a campania T-Rex?
Yeah, I think that's the thing. I'd rock it for $20k, but $60k is just a bit much for that thing, as cool as it is. Can anyone say "Ariel Atom"?

1.9Gs for the T-Rex, it says on the site. I'd have to see it to believe it. I might peak at 1.9, but I highly doubt it can sustain that for any period.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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