"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A friend of mine has a GXR bike and has been urging me to get one. He makes some great points.. They are extremely fuel efficent, they are cheap, they are fun. I haven't ever ridden a bike but I can't imagine it being the hardest thing on earth.

Anyway, I have decided to go ahead and get one.. worst case senerio, I don't like it, and I can sell it and loose a couple of hundred bucks becuase of negative equality, which is a risk I am not too concerned about.

What are some good recomendations?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get a trick bike and make sure it has pegs so a girl can stand on the pegs behind you.
 

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Take the motorcycle safety course, and wear quality gear. You can easily spend as much on safety gear as a used bike costs. A professional racer can drop a bike going 100+ mph and walk away, because he is covered in leather, plastic, and kevlar. The same crash would mean skin grafts and a lifetime of physical disfigurement if you were wearing a t-shirt and shorts like the average idiot.
 

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backbreaker said:
A friend of mine has a GXR bike and has been urging me to get one. He makes some great points.. They are extremely fuel efficent, they are cheap, they are fun. I haven't ever ridden a bike but I can't imagine it being the hardest thing on earth.

Anyway, I have decided to go ahead and get one.. worst case senerio, I don't like it, and I can sell it and loose a couple of hundred bucks becuase of negative equality, which is a risk I am not too concerned about.

What are some good recomendations?
A GSX-R isn't ideal for a beginner, their steering geometry is set-up to be very responsive, and the power wil kick your ass if you don't respect it. Many people have started on race-replica style bikes, but many many more have failed miserably too.

The bike I usually recommend for those starting out is the Suziki SV650S. They're stupid easy to ride, but they're still enough fun that you won't be looking to upgrade in a month or two when you start to really get the hang of riding. Plus, you can find the 00-01 models cheap, $2000 avg.

I'm thinking about getting another bike myself. I've had an SV650, a Yamaha R6, a Ducati 916, and now I want to get a Yamaha V-Max, chop it up and weld it back together until it looks like this...

Hardy Daytona
 

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i know about all the saftey gear... and I know myself to know thet ype of accidents I could and could not get into. I never see myself doing wheelies at 100mph ont he highway, or really just swearving though traffic like a bat out of hell, but at the same time, bikes are fun to ride

will look into it, thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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af just bought a new Honda 599 and loves it

http://www.mc-huset.no/honda/news06/599.jpg

It's better to get a bike with less of the expensive plastic. The half-faired bikes like the 599 are very popular. I had a 91 Suzuki gs500e that was very similar to my friend's new Honda
http://motoplanete.com/essais/essai500GSE.jpg

Fairings only help at speeds over about 130 mph anyway. The limiting factor above those speeds is air resistance. That's why the v-max has a top speed of only about 140 despite the massive engine.
 

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was thinking about buying a cruiser, but Im going to build an indycycle instead.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
af just bought a new Honda 599 and loves it

http://www.mc-huset.no/honda/news06/599.jpg

It's better to get a bike with less of the expensive plastic. The half-faired bikes like the 599 are very popular. I had a 91 Suzuki gs500e that was very similar to my friend's new Honda
http://motoplanete.com/essais/essai500GSE.jpg

Fairings only help at speeds over about 130 mph anyway. The limiting factor above those speeds is air resistance. That's why the v-max has a top speed of only about 140 despite the massive engine.
http://www.mc-huset.no/honda/news06/599.jpg

Here in Brazil we call "her" Hornet! Take a look:
http://www.motonline.com.br/testes/teste-zangada.html

To you americans it´s very cheap to buy one, but here it´s considered a "rich" guy´s bike. Here it´s mandatory to wear a crash helmet, in the states it´s not. I strongly advise you to wear one, don´t risk your life man.

You should buy a more "modern" bike like the XT. It´s based on an Eletronic Fuel Injection system and its panel is LCD. With it you can go anywhere, even rural areas.
http://www.motonline.com.br/testes/teste-xt660r.html
http://www.motomag.com/spip/diaporama.php3?id_article=87&id_document=1356
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lovesorrow said:
Here it´s mandatory to wear a crash helmet, in the states it´s not. I strongly advise you to wear one, don´t risk your life man.
Actually it is required in almost every state, either for every rider (most states) or riders under a certain age, usually 18 or 21. Very few states have no helmet laws at all.
 

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No I'm thinking about building something like this:

http://www.indycycle.net/main.htm

but with a more robust motor, better suspension, and paddle shifters.

I'm into metal fabricationg and glassing. My neighbor that owns a welding company is teaching me how to weld on the weekends, and I;ve taught myself how to glass (any idiot can.)
 

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No I'm thinking about building something like this:

http://www.indycycle.net/main.htm

but with a more robust motor, better suspension, and paddle shifters.

I'm into metal fabricationg and glassing. My neighbor that owns a welding company is teaching me how to weld on the weekends, and I;ve taught myself how to glass (any idiot can.)
I swa something similar to that at SEMA or one of the Motor Trend shows here. Looked nasty, and they were claiming something like 1.4-1.5 lateral Gs with it. The only downside, $60k for something that I could build in my bathroom.

I agree that any idiot can lay glass, but very few can make it look and function half-decent. The actual physical part of it is easy, design and concept take talent :up:
 

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I've made my mind up that I want to die going 160 mph either on land or falling out the sky in a small homebuilt plane.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Planes are stupid, Helis are better. (I can't find a "sticking my tounge out at you" smilie, but rest assured, I'm thinking it :D)
 

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S1NN3R said:
I swa something similar to that at SEMA or one of the Motor Trend shows here. Looked nasty, and they were claiming something like 1.4-1.5 lateral Gs with it. The only downside, $60k for something that I could build in my bathroom.

I agree that any idiot can lay glass, but very few can make it look and function half-decent. The actual physical part of it is easy, design and concept take talent :up:
Are you talking about a campania T-Rex? That's the only other 3 wheel motorcycle engine based vehicle that I can think of off hand (that's also around 60K). Those things are sick, they handle really well and it's a two seater so you can have a friend ride with you. I think you can have a V twin put in it but the more popular one is the inline 4.
 

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Are you talking about a campania T-Rex?
Yeah, I think that's the thing. I'd rock it for $20k, but $60k is just a bit much for that thing, as cool as it is. Can anyone say "Ariel Atom"?

1.9Gs for the T-Rex, it says on the site. I'd have to see it to believe it. I might peak at 1.9, but I highly doubt it can sustain that for any period.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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