ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
Senior Don Juan
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Does doing this affect your strength and stamina? Cuz the gym I'm in has lots of hot chicks and it turns me on. So is it severe?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LOL! Other then slightly less blood going to your muscles because its going somewhere elseROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:Does doing this affect your strength and stamina? Cuz the gym I'm in has lots of hot chicks and it turns me on. So is it severe?
Arnold talking about lifting being like sex was what got me interested in weightlifting long ago ... unfortunately, I was extremely disappointed when I found out it was just his ego talking.Cloud-uk said:Hah hah, I've heard about that video- "I'm cvmming all the time" I think was the quote I got... oh dear Arnie:nono: .
On even more of a tangent I read a great question in Men's Health from some poor bloke that kept ejaculating when he lifts. I know it's at his expense, but that is just so funny...
UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU!![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Haha, I normally don't like to make a fool outta myself, but I do something similar. Read somewhere that you can tolerate pain 3 times as much if you think about sex.DJDamage said:I use sex as motivation when I can't life anymore weights.
I usually pick a target some hot chick in the gym and every lift I visualise pumping inside of her and she begs for more and tells me not to be a pvssy and keep at it. It always worked for me.