"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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THINKING ABOUT SEX WHEN LIFTING Weights

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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Does doing this affect your strength and stamina? Cuz the gym I'm in has lots of hot chicks and it turns me on. So is it severe?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Does doing this affect your strength and stamina? Cuz the gym I'm in has lots of hot chicks and it turns me on. So is it severe?
LOL! Other then slightly less blood going to your muscles because its going somewhere else ;) I dont think it would do any harm.

ON a more serious note, if you are working out real hard, you should not even get an erection. If i do very long and intense cardio I simply cant get ont untill like must be half an hour after because all the blood is diverted to your muscles, but im talking very serious cardio, the stuff that leaves you both physicaly and mentaly shattered.
 

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Great topic. You know I found that I now REAAAAAALLY love working out now? Why? Because it's like sex to me now. In other words... I **** my weights.


Schwarzeneggar, in his world-renown autobiography, "Pumping Iron", mentioned how, when lifting, you get to a point where your muscles suffer so much pain (the threshhold), and that, once, and only once, he gets to the other side of that pain, he experiences 'the pump' - the point where blood literally rushes to the specific muscle trained. Sound familiar?

The interesting sidenote... The Terminator said that it feels like he's having an orgasm when he gets that 'pump'. So he laughs about it, and he says, "Man, my life is great, I orgasm in the gym, I orgasm in the bed, I orgasm on stage when I perform..."

I'm sure California is catching the cumshot on their property taxes just as much.




Wow am I on a tangent tonight...
 

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Hah hah, I've heard about that video- "I'm cvmming all the time" I think was the quote I got... oh dear Arnie:nono: .

On even more of a tangent I read a great question in Men's Health from some poor bloke that kept ejaculating when he lifts. I know it's at his expense, but that is just so funny...

UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU!:eek:
 

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Cloud-uk said:
Hah hah, I've heard about that video- "I'm cvmming all the time" I think was the quote I got... oh dear Arnie:nono: .

On even more of a tangent I read a great question in Men's Health from some poor bloke that kept ejaculating when he lifts. I know it's at his expense, but that is just so funny...

UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU!:eek:
Arnold talking about lifting being like sex was what got me interested in weightlifting long ago ... unfortunately, I was extremely disappointed when I found out it was just his ego talking.

I want whatever that guy has. If lifting gave me orgasms, then I would have no problems motivating myself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Last thing I want when i'm laying on the bench, in gym shorts, surrounded by a bunch of dudes is a boner.

However, if I see a good looking girl walk by I'll think something like "Once I get bigger girls like that will be a dime a dozen for me" and I get motivated.
 

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I use sex as motivation when I can't life anymore weights.

I usually pick a target some hot chick in the gym and every lift I visualise pumping inside of her and she begs for more and tells me not to be a pvssy and keep at it. It always worked for me.
 

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DJDamage said:
I use sex as motivation when I can't life anymore weights.


I usually pick a target some hot chick in the gym and every lift I visualise pumping inside of her and she begs for more and tells me not to be a pvssy and keep at it. It always worked for me.
Haha, I normally don't like to make a fool outta myself, but I do something similar. Read somewhere that you can tolerate pain 3 times as much if you think about sex.

Dunno if it helps, but it works for me! (especially when I'm on that FINAL rep...)
 
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