"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thinking about getting my EX Deported!!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You got a psycho on your hands who will do anything to either have you or destroy you. There are 3 things someone can do to you in order to seriously hurt you:
1) Hurt your reputation - she already did that by telling your family you are on drugs, plus she caused a rift between you and other girls who may not want to associate with you anymore because of her.
2) Hurt you Financially - Your dad could have fired your ass and you would be broke and out of the family business if she had her way.
3) Hurt you Physically - the crazy b1tch already stalked you and I believe it is not past her to do something much worse.
Anybody that try's to damage your reputation, your money/property or your health needs to be dealt with one way or another. Getting her deported is the best thing that could happen to you. Think about that. If she would happen to get " A Green Card" like she said she would, I would get a restraining order against her ASAP.
aftershock
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Respect to you, Immaculate. You'd rather ruin her life than you ruin yours!
Ken785
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DoN_KaTRiN
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shell get hers its all in time
spider_007
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Lost In Translation
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=79255
and she is doing a Bill Murray in ground hog day !
spider_007
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
you see that movie : SUPER TROOPERS
the kid in the back seat eats the magic mushrooms
the cops pull them over then drive off
they look behind them and they see the same cop car
what the ? lol
and the kid in the back on mushrooms says " I'M FREAKIN OUT MAAAAAN ! "
TACH
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"The snozzberries taste like snozzberries!"
paraguayandj
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All of you are fycking retarded. The worse $hit you can do to an immigrant is to deport them. Now she is in a fycking jail with criminals, waiting for her turn to be deported, she will be lucky to make it alive. Are you happy now?
You ruined her life because of vengence?
That my friend, is disgusting.
Beleive me she will not stop, everytime you think she has reached a new high, she'll think of something worse. THe way things are going I'd say it's mimiking my friends troubles. So don't think I am paranoid or something, go and get a PPO from her. Make up some BS story if you have to with the cops but make her be the guilty party first. Don't instigate things with her, just get away from her. Then when $hit hits the fan and trust me it's not "if" it's "when" at least you will have some backup. My buddy ended up in trouble with the cops and got thrown in jail cause the cops got called to their argument and thought he hit her. He didn't touch her yet he still got in jail for 2 days and had spent tons of $$$ to get a lawyer and prove himself inocent.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Who the hell are you to so self righteously call him a retard?Originally posted by paraguayandj
All of you are fycking retarded. The worse $hit you can do to an immigrant is to deport them. Now she is in a fycking jail with criminals, waiting for her turn to be deported, she will be lucky to make it alive. Are you happy now?
You ruined her life because of vengence?
That my friend, is disgusting.
First of all, if someone is living in the US illegally, it is your duty as a US citizen to report them. Just like if someone is committing a crime, it is your duty to report them.
Some people turn a blind eye to illegal activities, but just because he didn't it doesn't make him a retard. He did the right thing, even if it was for the wrong reasons.