You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
God, you're an idiot.Originally posted by Immaculate
OK I did it. I called and even told them she has been badmouthing our president/country.
I used my cell, I wonder if they traced the call and am listening to all my calls now.
Guess I wait and see.. oh great now one of her relatives will shoot my ass.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup:Originally posted by Ken785
immaculate you still there? or did one of their relaTIVES COME SHOOT YOU IN THE ASS ALREADY?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by DJDamage
If the INS catches her and deport her consider it a blessing.
You got a psycho on your hands who will do anything to either have you or destroy you. There are 3 things someone can do to you in order to seriously hurt you:
1) Hurt your reputation - she already did that by telling your family you are on drugs, plus she caused a rift between you and other girls who may not want to associate with you anymore because of her.
2) Hurt you Financially - Your dad could have fired your ass and you would be broke and out of the family business if she had her way.
3) Hurt you Physically - the crazy b1tch already stalked you and I believe it is not past her to do something much worse.
Anybody that try's to damage your reputation, your money/property or your health needs to be dealt with one way or another. Getting her deported is the best thing that could happen to you. Think about that. If she would happen to get " A Green Card" like she said she would, I would get a restraining order against her ASAP.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Who the hell are you to so self righteously call him a retard?Originally posted by paraguayandj
All of you are fycking retarded. The worse $hit you can do to an immigrant is to deport them. Now she is in a fycking jail with criminals, waiting for her turn to be deported, she will be lucky to make it alive. Are you happy now?
You ruined her life because of vengence?
That my friend, is disgusting.![]()