"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im thinking about direct messaging Guys on Snapchat helping them with girl problems

Any thoughts and could This break my image ..? Some of these Guys know a lot of people
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need money, got iT hard since my rent is high and Im studying 4 days a week.

Im thinking about direct messaging Guys on Snapchat helping them with girl problems

Any thoughts and could This break my image ..? Some of these Guys know a lot of people
Do it
 

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If you got red pill knowledge you treat it like its fight club bro.
Only talk about it with members.
Anyone else will just label you a chauvenist.
Or misogynist..
Many betas and AFC’s out there to give you kickback…
 
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If you got red pill knowledge you treat it like its fight club bro.
Only talk about it with members.
Anyone else will just label you a chauvenist.
That’s true tbh. It doesn’t feel good, people will use it against you. Abort mission.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I need money, got iT hard since my rent is high and Im studying 4 days a week.

Im thinking about direct messaging Guys on Snapchat helping them with girl problems

Any thoughts and could This break my image ..? Some of these Guys know a lot of people
I know from experience is best not to share your secrets of success regardless what field is it (money/job/girls/anything).
 

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I know from experience is best not to share your secrets of success regardless what field is it (money/job/girls/anything).
Ill keep that in mind brother. I experienced the same to be honest.
 

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I have recently thought about advertising casually as a life coach. Many (though not all) of the philosophies we learn here and on other sites apply to all areas of life, especially around interpersonal relationships, self respect and improvement.

Personally I would never package a service like that up as a 'dating advice service'. That boat has sailed really and the scope of the market is too narrow. Though invariably, you will still encounter people with girl / guy problems.

I know of other guys who are more general life and business coaches, and absolutely rake it in. One of my old mates working in sales consultancy says he charges three times your average monthly take home salary as a daily consultancy rate now. He's just bought a Porche Cougar and has worked in 17 different countries already this year.

Forget the PUA / dating coach thing. That's been done to death.
 
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In Holland theres a big market for iT bro.
I wanna do iT as a side thing after study but I think iT Will Hurt my reputation and name in the region. Im Well known since I went out basically All my life
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In Holland theres a big market for iT bro.
I wanna do iT as a side thing after study but I think iT Will Hurt my reputation and name in the region. Im Well known since I went out basically All my life
What do you mean by iT?
 

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I have recently thought about advertising casually as a life coach. Many (though not all) of the philosophies we learn here and on other sites apply to all areas of life, especially around interpersonal relationships, self respect and improvement.

Personally I would never package a service like that up as a 'dating advice service'. That boat has sailed really and the scope of the market is too narrow. Though invariably, you will still encounter people with girl / guy problems.

I know of other guys who are more general life and business coaches, and absolutely rake it in. One of my old mates working in sales consultancy says he charges three times your average monthly take home salary as a daily consultancy rate now. He's just bought a Porche Cougar and has worked in 17 different countries already this year.

Forget the PUA / dating coach thing. That's been done to death.
Agreed! I think there is a big market for it. Sell it more as a self-improvement service, where one of the results is better success with women.

To Gambino's original post... I have a buddy who just found out his wife has been having an emotional affair (which I think ended), and he still won't accept red pill stuff... I would say this guy has quite a few AFC tendancies, but isn't full blown AFC... most will label you as mysognyist, egotistical, etc...
 

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I have also considered being a personal trainer as a beginning to educating men. The key is getting the "buy in" from the customers and how to push your agenda. I have a buddy going through a divorce, and he recently said to me "everything you said a year ago was completely right"... That gets the buy-in, and now I am feeding him knowledge that he is willing to accept. He was not willing a year ago.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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