"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thinking about dropping this chick

MeteorMash

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I'm thinking about droppign this chick I have been talking to for months now. The reason being is that I'm getting back together with my girl and could honestly give a sh1t about her. She was pretty much just a chick I was talking too who wanted to fvck me. We still haven't fvcked (I don't really trust her like that), but she still will not leave me alone:rolleyes:

I've tried going MIA on her. For awhile it worked, but a few weeks later she called/text me again and again asking to hang out. I could've just ignored her, but i think im gonna have some fun with this one lol

I'm about to go Mega AFC on her and see what happens. I mean AFC'ing harder than any man has AFC'd before. I've never done this before so it should be fun. We hung out last week, and were about to do it again in a few days.

So i'll be posting how the convo's turn out and keep you guys updated

lol and now comes time to unleash the AFC beast!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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boomerick

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I'm not trying to be sh!tty but, why waste your time? Why not just next her and spend your time doing productive things that will improve YOUR life? Sounds like you are angry or fed up or something at your target girl and now you are going to mess with her for payback. If she's a clueless moron who won't take a hint then she'll probably miss your AFC play as well. Why not spend your time with your new/old girlfriend or on a hobby or sport or finding better quality chicks to hang with?
 

Kailex

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Okay, if you don't give a flying one about this girl, then what is this post all about then? I don't get it. It just seems like there is no point to it really. If you don't care then why turn AFC just to get rid of her?

I'm just not sure I follow what the true intention of this post is. You were talking to this girl for months but never made a move, because you don't trust her like that? How much trust do you need to have sex?

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but are you sure that there's not some underlying bitterness at the fact that you two have been talking for months and nothing happened?

If you really like the girl you are getting back to, just focus on that, not experimenting with someone else on how to be AFC, because God knows, you just might turn into a real one. It just seems that these kind of games are something a woman would do.

But please, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong about that.
 

boomerick

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GEEZ Kailex are we channeling??? hahahahahaha!
 

MeteorMash

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Kailex said:
Okay, if you don't give a flying one about this girl, then what is this post all about then? I don't get it. It just seems like there is no point to it really. If you don't care then why turn AFC just to get rid of her?

I'm just not sure I follow what the true intention of this post is. You were talking to this girl for months but never made a move, because you don't trust her like that? How much trust do you need to have sex?

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but are you sure that there's not some underlying bitterness at the fact that you two have been talking for months and nothing happened?

If you really like the girl you are getting back to, just focus on that, not experimenting with someone else on how to be AFC, because God knows, you just might turn into a real one. It just seems that these kind of games are something a woman would do.

But please, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong about that.
dude. It's really no big deal. I just thought i'd do a little experiment. Learn for myself, not to mention get a few laughs out of it.

You got it all twisted. There is now bitterness at all on my end. why would i be bitter when I don't want to fvck her? I've been turning her down since day one. I'm the kind of guy who needs to be intimate with a woman before I have sex with her. I don't like going around just boning chicks. Especially ones who have long track records like this one (she is also Bisexual and has been with tons of women and had a child) she could have anything for all I know. I need lots of trust to have sex
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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