"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thinking about dropping this chick

MeteorMash

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I'm thinking about droppign this chick I have been talking to for months now. The reason being is that I'm getting back together with my girl and could honestly give a sh1t about her. She was pretty much just a chick I was talking too who wanted to fvck me. We still haven't fvcked (I don't really trust her like that), but she still will not leave me alone:rolleyes:

I've tried going MIA on her. For awhile it worked, but a few weeks later she called/text me again and again asking to hang out. I could've just ignored her, but i think im gonna have some fun with this one lol

I'm about to go Mega AFC on her and see what happens. I mean AFC'ing harder than any man has AFC'd before. I've never done this before so it should be fun. We hung out last week, and were about to do it again in a few days.

So i'll be posting how the convo's turn out and keep you guys updated

lol and now comes time to unleash the AFC beast!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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boomerick

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I'm not trying to be sh!tty but, why waste your time? Why not just next her and spend your time doing productive things that will improve YOUR life? Sounds like you are angry or fed up or something at your target girl and now you are going to mess with her for payback. If she's a clueless moron who won't take a hint then she'll probably miss your AFC play as well. Why not spend your time with your new/old girlfriend or on a hobby or sport or finding better quality chicks to hang with?
 

Kailex

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Okay, if you don't give a flying one about this girl, then what is this post all about then? I don't get it. It just seems like there is no point to it really. If you don't care then why turn AFC just to get rid of her?

I'm just not sure I follow what the true intention of this post is. You were talking to this girl for months but never made a move, because you don't trust her like that? How much trust do you need to have sex?

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but are you sure that there's not some underlying bitterness at the fact that you two have been talking for months and nothing happened?

If you really like the girl you are getting back to, just focus on that, not experimenting with someone else on how to be AFC, because God knows, you just might turn into a real one. It just seems that these kind of games are something a woman would do.

But please, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong about that.
 

boomerick

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GEEZ Kailex are we channeling??? hahahahahaha!
 

MeteorMash

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Kailex said:
Okay, if you don't give a flying one about this girl, then what is this post all about then? I don't get it. It just seems like there is no point to it really. If you don't care then why turn AFC just to get rid of her?

I'm just not sure I follow what the true intention of this post is. You were talking to this girl for months but never made a move, because you don't trust her like that? How much trust do you need to have sex?

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but are you sure that there's not some underlying bitterness at the fact that you two have been talking for months and nothing happened?

If you really like the girl you are getting back to, just focus on that, not experimenting with someone else on how to be AFC, because God knows, you just might turn into a real one. It just seems that these kind of games are something a woman would do.

But please, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong about that.
dude. It's really no big deal. I just thought i'd do a little experiment. Learn for myself, not to mention get a few laughs out of it.

You got it all twisted. There is now bitterness at all on my end. why would i be bitter when I don't want to fvck her? I've been turning her down since day one. I'm the kind of guy who needs to be intimate with a woman before I have sex with her. I don't like going around just boning chicks. Especially ones who have long track records like this one (she is also Bisexual and has been with tons of women and had a child) she could have anything for all I know. I need lots of trust to have sex
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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