"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thinking about doing a boot camp

brenbaus

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Any DJs in training wanna join me, I am thinking about putting myself through the bootcamp starting August 22nd, because I will be starting school and want to meet many new, interesting women. Anyone else want to do it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nishbuk

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I'm in. Last time, I wanted to do this, but ended up in an LTR, that I just got DUMPED from after 7 months. August 22nd? Let's get reading. I find that if you start two weeks earlier just keeping your head up and smiling, you'll breeze through weeks 1, 2 and 3, very easily. Let's do this thang!

-Nish out.
 

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I am also thinking of combining the first several (three, I think it is) weeks where you are just supposed to greet people and convo for a few minutes, as I dont really have a problem with this, its just the number close and such I really suck at.
 

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so, are we gonna do this or not? We need some more people to do it the right way! If you guys want to start on week one, we can do that, because we can all use the practice!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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