"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Thinking about doing a boot camp

B

brenbaus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2005
Messages
437
Reaction score
1
Age
39
Location
Grovetown, GA, USA
Any DJs in training wanna join me, I am thinking about putting myself through the bootcamp starting August 22nd, because I will be starting school and want to meet many new, interesting women. Anyone else want to do it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

N

nishbuk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2004
Messages
535
Reaction score
3
Location
MTL
I'm in. Last time, I wanted to do this, but ended up in an LTR, that I just got DUMPED from after 7 months. August 22nd? Let's get reading. I find that if you start two weeks earlier just keeping your head up and smiling, you'll breeze through weeks 1, 2 and 3, very easily. Let's do this thang!

-Nish out.
 
B

brenbaus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2005
Messages
437
Reaction score
1
Age
39
Location
Grovetown, GA, USA
I am also thinking of combining the first several (three, I think it is) weeks where you are just supposed to greet people and convo for a few minutes, as I dont really have a problem with this, its just the number close and such I really suck at.
 
B

brenbaus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2005
Messages
437
Reaction score
1
Age
39
Location
Grovetown, GA, USA
so, are we gonna do this or not? We need some more people to do it the right way! If you guys want to start on week one, we can do that, because we can all use the practice!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top