"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Think twice before meeting a woman from the net
- Thread starter AverageFC
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Oh come on now, the stupid MF agreed to meet her in a park!!! What the fvck was he thinking. This had nothing to do with the Net and everything to do with his lack of qualification skills. He was just another AFC (no offense) who pissed his pants and did something stupid because some woman actually wanted to meet him, or so he thought. 
Dominus
Master Don Juan
Meh. Most women from the 'net are messed up anyway. I've met 5 girls in person after meeting them online. 1 was good looking, but she was insane (seriously). 3 of the other 4 looked nothing like their pictures, and only 1 was relatively normal, if a bit subpar physically (but she did have a ****ing gorgeous friend).
So, if you meet a girl online, don't think of her as anyone worthwhile. She probably isn't, and it won't hurt if she actually is.
So, if you meet a girl online, don't think of her as anyone worthwhile. She probably isn't, and it won't hurt if she actually is.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This completely proves my point. If you lack qualification skills, you end up in situations like this.