"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Think twice before meeting a woman from the net

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh come on now, the stupid MF agreed to meet her in a park!!! What the fvck was he thinking. This had nothing to do with the Net and everything to do with his lack of qualification skills. He was just another AFC (no offense) who pissed his pants and did something stupid because some woman actually wanted to meet him, or so he thought. :rolleyes:
 

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Meh. Most women from the 'net are messed up anyway. I've met 5 girls in person after meeting them online. 1 was good looking, but she was insane (seriously). 3 of the other 4 looked nothing like their pictures, and only 1 was relatively normal, if a bit subpar physically (but she did have a ****ing gorgeous friend).

So, if you meet a girl online, don't think of her as anyone worthwhile. She probably isn't, and it won't hurt if she actually is.
 

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Originally posted by Dominus
Meh. Most women from the 'net are messed up anyway. I've met 5 girls in person after meeting them online. 1 was good looking, but she was insane (seriously). 3 of the other 4 looked nothing like their pictures, and only 1 was relatively normal, if a bit subpar physically (but she did have a ****ing gorgeous friend).
This completely proves my point. If you lack qualification skills, you end up in situations like this.
 
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