"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Think this chick is interested or seeking attention?

zinc4

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Well, i have a GF, but it is a dead end relationship as i will be leaving the country for good three months later....and ideally i don't plan on cheating, but part of me says what's the point of remaining so serious...

So, i have recently been really attracted to one of my co-workers. She has been giving me off and on IOIs lately...and it has aroused my curiosity. It's like she has my hamster running, i would just like to know if she is attracted or wants attention...example...today me her and another male co-worker had to judge these silly Christmas songs sang by students...she is in charge of keeping the score cards, so while i was standing there, she came from behind and grabbed my forearm near my elbow to give me my scorecard, which is uncommon for girls here to do (Taiwan...Chinese culture)....then when they sang their songs i wrote down my score and she looked at my card and said i am writing down the same thing as you, smiling...i acted completely indifferent....also i have noticed her little timecard next to my timecard out of the blue on certain days...

The next songs we had to judge an hour later, she ignored me the entire time and talked to the other male co-worker who is married...she will do this often i have noticed act hot and cold...i always act indifferent because up until now i haven't cared that much about her...however, she looked extra hot today in a santa hat and tight skirt with silk leggings....i am not completely sure if she is interested or if it just bothers her that i am indifferent acting toward her...although i admit when she first came to our school a few months ago, i acted pretty interested and then realized it was silly as i have my GF and then went cold just pretty much ignoring her but acting polite when necessary. Now i would have already just asked her out since my contract is ending soon, but she knows i have a GF and it would most likely make me look like a louse and feel like one at that...but lately, temptation is reering it's ugly head....also i have never ever hooked up with a co-worker as it has been one of my principles not to, so it is taboo for me and lately just really turns me on the though of it after seeing her around the office so many times in her hot little outfits. My contact is ending so soon, it wouldn't be like s%tting where you eat. Thoughts on this chick? Don't know why i am so concerned about this one....i also have three plates in my city that i am in who i met while me and my GF were temporary broken up that will come over almost any time i call them to bang.....silly that this one chick has gotten to me at all really. Thoughts...
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Chilz Swayze

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This happened to me one time,the cherry knew I had a girl but its probably what made her attracted to me in the first place.word of advice bang the cherry and get it over with!
 

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she grabbed me near my elbow, she put her timecard next to my timecard, does she like me? you sound like a teenager

make a move or dead it
 
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