"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Think this chick is interested or seeking attention?

zinc4

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Well, i have a GF, but it is a dead end relationship as i will be leaving the country for good three months later....and ideally i don't plan on cheating, but part of me says what's the point of remaining so serious...

So, i have recently been really attracted to one of my co-workers. She has been giving me off and on IOIs lately...and it has aroused my curiosity. It's like she has my hamster running, i would just like to know if she is attracted or wants attention...example...today me her and another male co-worker had to judge these silly Christmas songs sang by students...she is in charge of keeping the score cards, so while i was standing there, she came from behind and grabbed my forearm near my elbow to give me my scorecard, which is uncommon for girls here to do (Taiwan...Chinese culture)....then when they sang their songs i wrote down my score and she looked at my card and said i am writing down the same thing as you, smiling...i acted completely indifferent....also i have noticed her little timecard next to my timecard out of the blue on certain days...

The next songs we had to judge an hour later, she ignored me the entire time and talked to the other male co-worker who is married...she will do this often i have noticed act hot and cold...i always act indifferent because up until now i haven't cared that much about her...however, she looked extra hot today in a santa hat and tight skirt with silk leggings....i am not completely sure if she is interested or if it just bothers her that i am indifferent acting toward her...although i admit when she first came to our school a few months ago, i acted pretty interested and then realized it was silly as i have my GF and then went cold just pretty much ignoring her but acting polite when necessary. Now i would have already just asked her out since my contract is ending soon, but she knows i have a GF and it would most likely make me look like a louse and feel like one at that...but lately, temptation is reering it's ugly head....also i have never ever hooked up with a co-worker as it has been one of my principles not to, so it is taboo for me and lately just really turns me on the though of it after seeing her around the office so many times in her hot little outfits. My contact is ending so soon, it wouldn't be like s%tting where you eat. Thoughts on this chick? Don't know why i am so concerned about this one....i also have three plates in my city that i am in who i met while me and my GF were temporary broken up that will come over almost any time i call them to bang.....silly that this one chick has gotten to me at all really. Thoughts...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chilz Swayze

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This happened to me one time,the cherry knew I had a girl but its probably what made her attracted to me in the first place.word of advice bang the cherry and get it over with!
 

omega05

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she grabbed me near my elbow, she put her timecard next to my timecard, does she like me? you sound like a teenager

make a move or dead it
 
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