"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Think she's lying to me, but she won't admit it.

styleman

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The girl I am seeing, I have reasons to believe that she is 'progressing' with another guy.
What I know is very vague, but I've even as far as seen her receiving flirtatious texts.
When I asked her whether this was the case, she denied it, and claimed that the texts were harmless and the guy was 'just a friend'.
Her reaction was strange, normally, if I say anything negative to her she gets very confrontational, but she was quite calm in this situation, simply saying things like 'I wouldn't lie to you'. I asked her, does that mean I should just ignore it then, her response 'there's nothing to ignore'...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

styleman

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Should I confront her again, or is she telling the truth?
 

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receiving flirtatious texts? that's it?
 

styleman

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ready123 said:
receiving flirtatious texts? that's it?
Well she's met the guy alone, which she told me about herself when I asked her... I have no idea whether she's kissed/slept with this guy...
 
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