"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Think she's lying to me, but she won't admit it.

styleman

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The girl I am seeing, I have reasons to believe that she is 'progressing' with another guy.
What I know is very vague, but I've even as far as seen her receiving flirtatious texts.
When I asked her whether this was the case, she denied it, and claimed that the texts were harmless and the guy was 'just a friend'.
Her reaction was strange, normally, if I say anything negative to her she gets very confrontational, but she was quite calm in this situation, simply saying things like 'I wouldn't lie to you'. I asked her, does that mean I should just ignore it then, her response 'there's nothing to ignore'...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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styleman

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Should I confront her again, or is she telling the truth?
 

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receiving flirtatious texts? that's it?
 

styleman

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ready123 said:
receiving flirtatious texts? that's it?
Well she's met the guy alone, which she told me about herself when I asked her... I have no idea whether she's kissed/slept with this guy...
 
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