"She's Out of Your League"

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Think im about to ganji this girl BUT..

christz

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I just wanted to get some opinons of others just to make sure this is the right move.

long story short, i like this girl i think she likes me we kinda have this thing, i'm no in a friends zone because well we've messed around somewhat and she is always getting freaky on the phone telling me to come over and fu*k her although i can't because i got work early in the mornings and two her parents would flip.

Also she calls me just to say good night, she calls me every night to have conversation, i don't call her to much she iniates all contact etc.. she picks up whenever i call even when she's sleeping (hears phone, picks up)

and pretty much a handfull of other good signs.

However what's bad and why i'm thinking about ganji'ing her for a bit is because one, when i make plans with her spur of the moment she normally tells me that she can't because she has plans with this and this person to do this and this.

uhh, if you liked somebody a lot wouldn't you just drop your shyt and go on a date? i dunno just me

another thing is, she tends to bring up other guys, and she even told me of this new guy she met recently who is "cool" and she's telling me how she's gonna try and hang out with him a lot and for what it seems work around his schedual so she can hang out with him.

However she still insist on calling me everynight before bed etc etc..

I'm thinkin I need to have this girl miss me, and i know she will but i dunno i mean ganji is reserved if the girl is playing games, this girl isn't disrespecting me she hasen't blown me off or flaked out on me EVER so maybe there is another method to get her to come my way quicker.

Attraction isn't a problem since she thinks and has said i'm the hottest guy she knows. so WTF man what do i NEED to do here?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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have you tried to set anything up besides spur of the moment stuff. If you haven't then try and if she flakes then ganji.
 

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420 posts my friend, you know what to do. Classic attention whorish behavior. Of course she wants you to bang her, yeah right. If she did, she'd be over with you not worrying about her parents. You had some fun with her, time to move on.

NEXT!
 

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Originally posted by belividere
have you tried to set anything up besides spur of the moment stuff. If you haven't then try and if she flakes then ganji.
No and that is what i'm thinking I need to do, and i guess spur of the moment type stuff is kinda bad considering, i mean she does have plans she's a pretty active girl.

today when i droped some spur of the moment plans on her, she gave me a LEGIT "no" because i'm doing "this" not a..

"ummm, well call me a little later and maybe we can , i dunno yet though"

kinda bullshyt answer, but your right i'll set some plans in stone tonight when she calls assuming she didn't already make plans with these people again tonight, however if i keep trying to set up plans and she's always setting plans up with other people before "considering" setting up plans with me, i may take that as a sign that she is flaking on me without the actual flakeing.
 

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Originally posted by Rockadeimis
420 posts my friend, you know what to do. Classic attention whorish behavior. Of course she wants you to bang her, yeah right. If she did, she'd be over with you not worrying about her parents. You had some fun with her, time to move on.

NEXT!
she's telling me to come over to her house and i'm the one refuseing the last few times we hung out she set it up and one time she actually followed me in her car without me knowing and i pulled over in a park and she pulled in after me and said i saw you and since we were talkin on the phone thought i'd surprise you.

so yah i dunno, this girl has her head on pretty tight. i doubt she's an AW since i've delt with the worst AW of them all recently
 

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belividere

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Originally posted by christz
however if i keep trying to set up plans and she's always setting plans up with other people before "considering" setting up plans with me, i may take that as a sign that she is flaking on me without the actual flakeing.
Agreed. That is flaking. Good luck with her. Let us know what happens.
 
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