"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Think I'll get a second date?

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I woke up one morning to the girl I was interested adding me on facebook so (having been rejected by a girl the night before) I thought what the heck, asked her out. We both started work at lunch so spent the morning together. Overall, things went well but it I find it hard to read shy girls. I was surprised at how heavily make-up'd she for such a simple meetup. She would not let us leave even though we were both late - she lost track of time. She enjoyed my massaging and was singing to the car radio as I dropped her off.

Now it's the next day after and I wanted to ask her out to dinner proper but here's the catch. I had a browse on her facebook page and while her status says she is single, in the last month there has been a few posts about her spending time with a guy. Normally this does not phase me because I have pics of myself with so many woman, the odd one of lipstick on my face etc but one particular post is showered in hearts and smiling faces.

That post obviously killed my hopes and now I am not sure how I should go about things. Brunch I think went well besides some eagerness from me (sorry a bit rusty). I know she has quite a few guy friends (she'd be an 8 on my scale) and at start, her phone went off and she heavily insisted it was simply her sisters ex whom she saw as a brother and nothing else besides that, her phone stayed in her pocket the whole time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attractive women have a lot of male friends and use Facebook for attention. It could be some loser, it could be one of her best friends. (I'm all love-hearty and smiley faces with my close female friends). Just focus on building attraction.
 
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I was thoroughly interested in your post OP till I read the word Facebook twice. Honestly I didn't read anything after that. Stop browsing and flirting with girls through Facebook. Your going to eat yourself from the inside out wondering about every little stupid thing.

Call/text should be your only form of contact with any chick. I'm sure you mentioned to her that you had a great time with her, so initiate another date. She will either be interested or decline. Either way you have your answer. Don't play any games my man!
 
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