“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Think I'll get a second date?

Tomo

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I woke up one morning to the girl I was interested adding me on facebook so (having been rejected by a girl the night before) I thought what the heck, asked her out. We both started work at lunch so spent the morning together. Overall, things went well but it I find it hard to read shy girls. I was surprised at how heavily make-up'd she for such a simple meetup. She would not let us leave even though we were both late - she lost track of time. She enjoyed my massaging and was singing to the car radio as I dropped her off.

Now it's the next day after and I wanted to ask her out to dinner proper but here's the catch. I had a browse on her facebook page and while her status says she is single, in the last month there has been a few posts about her spending time with a guy. Normally this does not phase me because I have pics of myself with so many woman, the odd one of lipstick on my face etc but one particular post is showered in hearts and smiling faces.

That post obviously killed my hopes and now I am not sure how I should go about things. Brunch I think went well besides some eagerness from me (sorry a bit rusty). I know she has quite a few guy friends (she'd be an 8 on my scale) and at start, her phone went off and she heavily insisted it was simply her sisters ex whom she saw as a brother and nothing else besides that, her phone stayed in her pocket the whole time.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Attractive women have a lot of male friends and use Facebook for attention. It could be some loser, it could be one of her best friends. (I'm all love-hearty and smiley faces with my close female friends). Just focus on building attraction.
 

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I was thoroughly interested in your post OP till I read the word Facebook twice. Honestly I didn't read anything after that. Stop browsing and flirting with girls through Facebook. Your going to eat yourself from the inside out wondering about every little stupid thing.

Call/text should be your only form of contact with any chick. I'm sure you mentioned to her that you had a great time with her, so initiate another date. She will either be interested or decline. Either way you have your answer. Don't play any games my man!
 
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