Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Think i pissed off potential FWB by rejecting sex..

jay07

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Long story short. I posted a week ago about ex gf from a while back who recently got into contact

She begins texting me every day for the past week, then tells me yesterday she wants to get a drink with her when i get off work, i accept.

We go to the bar, get tipsy, go back to her place and chill for a while. I was pretty sure she wanted to bang but there was another girl who i was PM on fb and wanted to hang out with, so instead of initiating anything with her, i kinda just flirt around with her then tell her i have to go, give her a hug and leave. She tells me to text her when im home.

I text her when im home, no response. Then today she has not contacted me which makes me think i upset her. I really dont care if shes upset but im not sure if i ruined this potential FWB.

Should i text her to hang out for a few and try to bang her tonight or should i wait for her to initiate again? Dont want to give her any power though, she is manipulative and i know for a fact shes talking to some guy so i am very confused on what the hell is going through her head.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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VladPatton

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She's a pissed, broski! lol Fųck it, give it a week. Do what they do to us. Play the waiting game till she gets horny again.

If she's manipulative as you say, she doesn't deserve the greatest treatment in the world. Hopefully you won't regret her coming into your life again. Personally, I wouldn't go near her if she was an ex.

Take Caution.
 

BadNews

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I agree with Vlad. If she is your ex it's probably best to steer clear of her. That being said, if you still want to pursue then you need to be patient. Let her get into contact with you. I don't think you did anything to screw it up, so quit over analyzing the situation. If anything you probably just made her want you more.
 
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