"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Think i pissed off potential FWB by rejecting sex..

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jay07

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Long story short. I posted a week ago about ex gf from a while back who recently got into contact

She begins texting me every day for the past week, then tells me yesterday she wants to get a drink with her when i get off work, i accept.

We go to the bar, get tipsy, go back to her place and chill for a while. I was pretty sure she wanted to bang but there was another girl who i was PM on fb and wanted to hang out with, so instead of initiating anything with her, i kinda just flirt around with her then tell her i have to go, give her a hug and leave. She tells me to text her when im home.

I text her when im home, no response. Then today she has not contacted me which makes me think i upset her. I really dont care if shes upset but im not sure if i ruined this potential FWB.

Should i text her to hang out for a few and try to bang her tonight or should i wait for her to initiate again? Dont want to give her any power though, she is manipulative and i know for a fact shes talking to some guy so i am very confused on what the hell is going through her head.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She's a pissed, broski! lol Fųck it, give it a week. Do what they do to us. Play the waiting game till she gets horny again.

If she's manipulative as you say, she doesn't deserve the greatest treatment in the world. Hopefully you won't regret her coming into your life again. Personally, I wouldn't go near her if she was an ex.

Take Caution.
 
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I agree with Vlad. If she is your ex it's probably best to steer clear of her. That being said, if you still want to pursue then you need to be patient. Let her get into contact with you. I don't think you did anything to screw it up, so quit over analyzing the situation. If anything you probably just made her want you more.
 
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