"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Think i pissed off potential FWB by rejecting sex..

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jay07

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Long story short. I posted a week ago about ex gf from a while back who recently got into contact

She begins texting me every day for the past week, then tells me yesterday she wants to get a drink with her when i get off work, i accept.

We go to the bar, get tipsy, go back to her place and chill for a while. I was pretty sure she wanted to bang but there was another girl who i was PM on fb and wanted to hang out with, so instead of initiating anything with her, i kinda just flirt around with her then tell her i have to go, give her a hug and leave. She tells me to text her when im home.

I text her when im home, no response. Then today she has not contacted me which makes me think i upset her. I really dont care if shes upset but im not sure if i ruined this potential FWB.

Should i text her to hang out for a few and try to bang her tonight or should i wait for her to initiate again? Dont want to give her any power though, she is manipulative and i know for a fact shes talking to some guy so i am very confused on what the hell is going through her head.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She's a pissed, broski! lol Fųck it, give it a week. Do what they do to us. Play the waiting game till she gets horny again.

If she's manipulative as you say, she doesn't deserve the greatest treatment in the world. Hopefully you won't regret her coming into your life again. Personally, I wouldn't go near her if she was an ex.

Take Caution.
 
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BadNews

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I agree with Vlad. If she is your ex it's probably best to steer clear of her. That being said, if you still want to pursue then you need to be patient. Let her get into contact with you. I don't think you did anything to screw it up, so quit over analyzing the situation. If anything you probably just made her want you more.
 
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