Think I messed up? It was my first attempt...

[ARrocket]

Well, I've never really tried to meet women on the internet before, but I got into this chat room...

I started talking to this HB8...she just turned 24, I'm 18 and a half. First of all, is this gap too much? I told her I was 19, and she seemed ok with that age difference.

She lives about an hour from me. I used a lot of C&F, but I think it was too ****y and not enough funny. She called me sarcastic twice, and a couple of times she seemed exasperated instead of laughing at my comments. Also, I think it was too drawn out...it seemed to dry up. I just told her I had to go, and to let me know the next time she's in my city. She didn't reply to that....

I'm not really worried about it, but do you guys think I should forget her as a prospect? Also, any tips for this kind of thing in the future?

 

[SilverSonnet]

right, some soft tips from me.

Dude, don't lie about your age unless your looking for a quick lay. Women always find out about that sh!t and then they wonder what else you've lied about. T
hen, I'd advise not talking on MSN or anything of the sort. Your real personality cannot shine through, so when your doing CnF online, your probably coming across as mean or sarcastic.

Also, you might still have a chance with this girl ,but just get her number and decide a date pal.

Good luck man, hope it works out well for ya.

Ben

 

[ARrocket]

Actually...I kinda am looking for a quick lay

For a relationship, I'd want somebody here, and somebody my age.

So you think next time I talk to her I should get the #?

 

[SilverSonnet]

Definitely man, why wait? Your not gonna be around forever. And what if she says no, its your precious time wasted. So sooner rather than later.

 

[DonGorgon]

There is nothing there but wasted bandwidth... women love the internet , phones and texting cause they can BS to their hearts content

 

[ARrocket]

haha thanks man. Are you seriously 14?? I doubt that.

I'm just worried...I'm not good looking at all. Don't worry, I'm confident, and know I can attract women, but without having much time to get to know her, or without being able to show any social proof or build rapport, I'm worried it will come down to the physical qualities with this girl. But, I guess I have to just go for it, right?

 

[ARrocket]

There is nothing there but wasted bandwidth... women love the internet , phones and texting cause they can BS to their hearts content

So you're saying it's a lost cause?

 

[DonGorgon]

So you're saying it's a lost cause?

I dont see much hope.. but who knows.

 

[ARrocket]

lol alright, well, I'll give it a shot.

 

[SilverSonnet]

AR, man, I am 14, but I talk alot with Rollo Tomassi, Docs, Wescott II (my personal tutor, gotta love him) so Im well educated.
Use affirmations. Like so : I am fabulously good looking and every gir wants to jump my bones, it'll supercharge your confidence and change your view of yourself mate. You should love yourself completely, make sure you define how good looking you are, not ******d things (ads, comments about you etc, theyre just jealous of you )

Dude, no offense to Don Gorgon, but there's always hope if she hasn't LJBF'ed you. Alot of women use online as a emotional outlet, so make sure that isn't you, hey? You want that woman, you take fvcking charge and get her pal

Good luck brother
Ben

 

[ARrocket]

Thanks "kid"

But really, thanks.

 

[SilverSonnet]

ha ha, no problem. We're a brotherhood here, need to stick together and help each other, instead of teasing and bullying each other. Nobody gets better by criticism, only praise can lead us forward, (Props to anyone who knows where I learnt this from )

Ben