My 3 month F Buddy is the hottest of my 3 plates at the moment, and I have started to get attatched to her. My problem is that she is so busy/unavailable, and would only see her once a week, sometimes twice a week but it is always me who sets up the meet and she has flaked a few times.
Today I was with her but it was with other friends also, so I didn't really get to spend time with her alone. But I did ask her to come to watch a movie on Saturday night at my house (tomorrow) and she just sort of said "err yeaah ok".
She says yes to meet up but never seems like she really wants to anymore.
She's told me a month ago that she doesn't want to fall for me because of issues with her and my ex, but she think she "may have already", and I feel like I may have for her. But I don't know why she seems to be backing off lately and has also stopped with the through the day non-stop texts.
Anyway, I have a feeling she might cancel tomorrow. I'm pretty sure there isn't somebody else involved. But may be cancelling so that she "doesn't get too close" to me.
So with it just being a casual conversation where I asked her to come over tomorrow night, do I text her through the day tomorrow to make sure?
I'd prefer to wait until about 5pm and text if she hasn't yet.
What would I say if she doesn't text me to confirm?
And how would I react to her if she was to say she can't make it?
Thanks
Today I was with her but it was with other friends also, so I didn't really get to spend time with her alone. But I did ask her to come to watch a movie on Saturday night at my house (tomorrow) and she just sort of said "err yeaah ok".
She says yes to meet up but never seems like she really wants to anymore.
She's told me a month ago that she doesn't want to fall for me because of issues with her and my ex, but she think she "may have already", and I feel like I may have for her. But I don't know why she seems to be backing off lately and has also stopped with the through the day non-stop texts.
Anyway, I have a feeling she might cancel tomorrow. I'm pretty sure there isn't somebody else involved. But may be cancelling so that she "doesn't get too close" to me.
So with it just being a casual conversation where I asked her to come over tomorrow night, do I text her through the day tomorrow to make sure?
I'd prefer to wait until about 5pm and text if she hasn't yet.
What would I say if she doesn't text me to confirm?
And how would I react to her if she was to say she can't make it?
Thanks
