"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Think about it this way

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Think about it this way. If you wanted a bottle of Snapple, you'd get up, walk over to the fridge, grab a bottle, take off the lid, and drink. Same with girls. Say you wanted a girl. You'd just get up, walk over to the girl, grab her, take off the lid, and drink. Except for some reason people insist on calling walking over to her an "approach", grabbing her a "pick-up", taking the lid off "seduction", and so on. Nonsense. The mechanics are the same. Just walk over, grab her, get the lid off, and drink. Remember, once you start flirting you're already basically having sex. Flirting is foreplay. Foreplay is sex. The only question is of how far it will go.

So if you want to make love to a girl, just walk over to and start making love to her already. First, make love to her with your eyes. Then, make love to her with your words. Then make love to her with your body. You know how to do it--you're born knowing the basics. And the less you think and the more primitive you are, the easier it is. First f*ck the girl's mind and then f*ck her body. Simple. If you want it, take it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Great tip Vatican. Usually the simplest tips are the best. Two days ago I did what you say here and ended up turning a girl on that she let me lick her neck while her boyfriend was there.

... women!

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THIAGO BRAZIL

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bump
the old tips are full of info!!
 

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Originally posted by THIAGO BRAZIL:
bump
the old tips are full of info!!
I agree! Thanks for bumping it.



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is this?

EDIT: BUMP
 
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