"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think about it this way

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Think about it this way. If you wanted a bottle of Snapple, you'd get up, walk over to the fridge, grab a bottle, take off the lid, and drink. Same with girls. Say you wanted a girl. You'd just get up, walk over to the girl, grab her, take off the lid, and drink. Except for some reason people insist on calling walking over to her an "approach", grabbing her a "pick-up", taking the lid off "seduction", and so on. Nonsense. The mechanics are the same. Just walk over, grab her, get the lid off, and drink. Remember, once you start flirting you're already basically having sex. Flirting is foreplay. Foreplay is sex. The only question is of how far it will go.

So if you want to make love to a girl, just walk over to and start making love to her already. First, make love to her with your eyes. Then, make love to her with your words. Then make love to her with your body. You know how to do it--you're born knowing the basics. And the less you think and the more primitive you are, the easier it is. First f*ck the girl's mind and then f*ck her body. Simple. If you want it, take it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Great tip Vatican. Usually the simplest tips are the best. Two days ago I did what you say here and ended up turning a girl on that she let me lick her neck while her boyfriend was there.

... women!

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THIAGO BRAZIL

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bump
the old tips are full of info!!
 

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Originally posted by THIAGO BRAZIL:
bump
the old tips are full of info!!
I agree! Thanks for bumping it.



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is this?

EDIT: BUMP
 
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