Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Things you do different with a ONS/Loose plate

Murk

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Do you guys do anything different with ONS/plate you have minimal care for, compared to LTR/GF/potential?

I have a woman coming to mine tonight after 8pm, it's her birthday on Thursday and she's flying to Greece for a week so she wants some fun. I'm going to drink a bottle of wine and try to have some debauched fun. On our first date I fingered her on a semi busy train on the way to my place.

I always seem to get extra confidence when it's a girl I care little for but I need some ideas. I am quite vanilla and I know this women is a wh0re.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Duke

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For Plates:
I'm more selfish and have less concern for their feelings. I never bother calling them, just text when I feel like it. I'm probably even more of a challenge. I schedule around what works best for me. I don't invest much more than a few dollars and my penis. Definitely not exposing myself. Doing so keeps them working really hard for my affection which is what they are really after. They just trade sex to get affection/validation.
 
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claudolfgeorgini

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Nothing. My biggest issue is treating certain women better than others. Give them all the same script.

Luckily the "script" is simple. Have value and don't be needy. Every failed situation I've had with women stemmed from ****ing up one of these.
 
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