"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Things you do different with a ONS/Loose plate

Murk

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Do you guys do anything different with ONS/plate you have minimal care for, compared to LTR/GF/potential?

I have a woman coming to mine tonight after 8pm, it's her birthday on Thursday and she's flying to Greece for a week so she wants some fun. I'm going to drink a bottle of wine and try to have some debauched fun. On our first date I fingered her on a semi busy train on the way to my place.

I always seem to get extra confidence when it's a girl I care little for but I need some ideas. I am quite vanilla and I know this women is a wh0re.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Duke

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For Plates:
I'm more selfish and have less concern for their feelings. I never bother calling them, just text when I feel like it. I'm probably even more of a challenge. I schedule around what works best for me. I don't invest much more than a few dollars and my penis. Definitely not exposing myself. Doing so keeps them working really hard for my affection which is what they are really after. They just trade sex to get affection/validation.
 
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claudolfgeorgini

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Nothing. My biggest issue is treating certain women better than others. Give them all the same script.

Luckily the "script" is simple. Have value and don't be needy. Every failed situation I've had with women stemmed from ****ing up one of these.
 
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