"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Things you do different with a ONS/Loose plate

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Murk

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Do you guys do anything different with ONS/plate you have minimal care for, compared to LTR/GF/potential?

I have a woman coming to mine tonight after 8pm, it's her birthday on Thursday and she's flying to Greece for a week so she wants some fun. I'm going to drink a bottle of wine and try to have some debauched fun. On our first date I fingered her on a semi busy train on the way to my place.

I always seem to get extra confidence when it's a girl I care little for but I need some ideas. I am quite vanilla and I know this women is a wh0re.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For Plates:
I'm more selfish and have less concern for their feelings. I never bother calling them, just text when I feel like it. I'm probably even more of a challenge. I schedule around what works best for me. I don't invest much more than a few dollars and my penis. Definitely not exposing myself. Doing so keeps them working really hard for my affection which is what they are really after. They just trade sex to get affection/validation.
 
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Nothing. My biggest issue is treating certain women better than others. Give them all the same script.

Luckily the "script" is simple. Have value and don't be needy. Every failed situation I've had with women stemmed from ****ing up one of these.
 
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