"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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things to say to impress her

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u can porbably tell im a newbie but what can i say to impress her, get her to like me a little bit more?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Be a man of action, impress people with what you DO not what you SAY. What things can you do? Expand your social circles, become more attractive, get a life, flirt and have fun with all girls you come in to contact with, etc. That should get you started.

By the way buddy, read the bible, theres no easy couple of words. As men, it comes natural to us to want a simple answer i know, but just improve yourself and it will come. You reap what you sew.
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
Be a man of action, impress people with what you DO not what you SAY. What things can you do? Expand your social circles, become more attractive, get a life, flirt and have fun with all girls you come in to contact with, etc. That should get you started.

By the way buddy, read the bible, theres no easy couple of words. As men, it comes natural to us to want a simple answer i know, but just improve yourself and it will come. You reap what you sew.
There are many phrases that will increase her intrest... I use a few specific, token-strands of conversation in every approach. They will not get you #'s, but collectively, having a few sure-fire phrases is another step towards victory.

"I can't have you thinking I'm easy, now. I'm not some piece of meat, some sex to you can use over, and over, and over... I'm more than that, and I wan't someone who can appreciate me for who I am on the inside" - your target will virtually piss herself laughing. Say it whenever she ASSUMES you like her, or you can bait it yourself "I'd invite you to the movies, but we should just go to coffee" and then break into the line.

"Don't sas me... if theres anyone in this mall/car/wherever you SHOULDNT sas, its me, honey."

"The last time I <whatever>, a sexy woman took advantage of me..."

"Are you trying to seduce me?"

Those are just a few oh the specific phrases I use quite often in pickups. I also have a vast repitoire of stories from my life that are absolutly helerius. If nothing I have fits, I make something up, simple as that.
 
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Sexual inuendo works for me, but gotta be careful not to offend whoever you are trying to DJ. Key is to use it at the right time in a joking way, always gets a good laugh.
 

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if you are good at a sport and play for a team, get her to come watch one of your games. the girl im with now usually comes to my home games (the only time she doesnt come is when she has her soccer) and im pretty good at hockey, (brag=in the top 3 of my team. as said from the coach) she also said that watching me turns her on
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well, if you try to impress ppl you're just going to look like a show off and is trying to hard to gain approval of peers.
 
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