obti
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What are the little things you have found which can make you more attractive what ever they are from ways you sit to items of clothing post them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SenorSuave
Don Juan
Peacocking is one of the things I have improved on, but since I've started seduction, I'd say the key improvement was on confidence. I know, it's not a little thing but it has brought me from AFC, to PUA. A few other things are taking care of my hair more, mixing it up a bit. My latest style is a medium cut styled to look as if a woman had just rubbed her hands through my hair 
i need to personally work on being nice to people and not coming off as arrogant or a jerk. cause i do that sometimes. i also need to stop dropping the f-bomb and bragging sometimes. haha but that's just me. there are tips literally all over the site on the little things to do. but mostly it comes down to confidence
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Conversational Confidence + Taking Control = Gold