"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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obti

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What are the little things you have found which can make you more attractive what ever they are from ways you sit to items of clothing post them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SenorSuave

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Peacocking is one of the things I have improved on, but since I've started seduction, I'd say the key improvement was on confidence. I know, it's not a little thing but it has brought me from AFC, to PUA. A few other things are taking care of my hair more, mixing it up a bit. My latest style is a medium cut styled to look as if a woman had just rubbed her hands through my hair ;)
 

eko

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i need to personally work on being nice to people and not coming off as arrogant or a jerk. cause i do that sometimes. i also need to stop dropping the f-bomb and bragging sometimes. haha but that's just me. there are tips literally all over the site on the little things to do. but mostly it comes down to confidence
 
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