"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Things to always remember:

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1.) Dont chase women or buses. You can always ride the next one that comes by. And there will always be a next one.

2.) There are two things you can never have too much of: Money and pvssy. Dont throw either away if you can get use from it.

3.) The only thing you have complete control over are your thoughts, emotions and reactions. Make sure that you manage each carefully.

4.) If something benefits you, do it. If it doesnt, walk away from it.


Feel free to add.

Happy hunting.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What if something benefits you.. IE great sex.. But at the same time doesn't benefit you IE spending time and associating with damaged toxic hoes!
 

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What if something benefits you.. IE great sex.. But at the same time doesn't benefit you IE spending time and associating with damaged toxic hoes!
Soulforge, always remember this concept as it will direct your future decisions to your benefit.

You have three minds. Hence why many often have conflicts of desire such as in your quote.

The body mind: your biology

The brain mind: the ego and rational thought process

The soul mind: your higher ideals, going beyond yourself, and complete consciousness

The body mind is the most primal of the three, the brain mind in the middle, and the soul mind is transcendental.

And to your issue: your body mind says yes. Your brain mind and maybe soul mind say no.

Follow the hierarchy.
 

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Soulforge, always remember this concept as it will direct your future decisions to your benefit.

You have three minds. Hence why many often have conflicts of desire such as in your quote.

The body mind: your biology

The brain mind: the ego and rational thought process

The soul mind: your higher ideals, going beyond yourself, and complete consciousness

The body mind is the most primal of the three, the brain mind in the middle, and the soul mind is transcendental.

And to your issue: your body mind says yes. Your brain mind and maybe soul mind say no.

Follow the hierarchy.
Yes, growing up I was raised Independent Baptist. We had a similar teaching that a man, being made in the image of God, was also 3. The soul, spirit/mind, and flesh/body.
 

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3.) The only thing you have complete control over are your thoughts, emotions and reactions. Make sure that you manage each carefully.
I can not stress enough how much this is important...

I would say that 90% r of you reading this do not hav control over your thoughts and emotions.... most of you pretending.

Controll happens when you realize how muck damaged you were previously. You break down. If stages wise, first you empower, but then later you break down and cry. I was sht. You must have that in order to go through this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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