Things that just "always seem to happen"

[The Comeback Kid]

I couldn't think of a name for this post, but I had a question for you guys: Is there always something that seems to happen whenever you are pursuing a girl - as in fate, not anything you do?

Here's mine. Well first, I have never had a girlfriend. But the funny thing is, within the week after I asked the girl I liked out, the girl finds a bf. This has happened at least five time out of the seven times I've asked a girl out.

I don't get why that happens - After I ask the girl I like out and she says no to me, she'll have a boyfriend withing the week (or two) afterwards. Why? Is there a reason to it, or is it just a coincidence? It's not like they go from bf to bf either.

So, there's my example. Any odd things that always seem to happen to you (fate) when pursuing a girl?

 

[The Comeback Kid]

I feel this can be an interesting topic...

maybe there is something to it?

 

[McKindley]

Yea, I got one. . .

Whenever I have sex, I end up having an orgasm at the end. Its like, no matter WHAT, sex ends with an orgasm. Maybe I'm doing it wrong???? Any tips?

(Sorry, I'm a jerk.)

But to be serious, the only thing that ever happened with me like that is I would come on to a chick, get shot down. Then later I'd find out she'd spent the next few days thinking of me, and wished I'd tried to come on to her again.

I just wasn't persistant enough. I'm really bad at telling if a girl is digging me or not. So that's what that is.

Boo yaa *****es.

 

[coolguy676767]

This happens in IMHO for a few reasons

1. It gives her confidence she is attractive
2. She probly thought she had a chance with this other guy in thr first place and maybe liked him more, so she didnt want to commit to you if he was still on the table.
3. You just notice it more because it was with you, perhaps 10 guys asker her out the same week you did.

 

[CamiL]

OK, This is going to sound over-confident but I'll throw ALL my stuff down on a girl, and I will think she just isn't in to me... So I act like "Oh well, whatever , her loss"

And I swear to god I'll find out a week later the girl likes me, and we'll usually date

 

[Jerky Boi]

Coincidence

 

[The Comeback Kid]

bump...keep em comin'!

 

[Patrick124]

I used to not get hookups from girls. I wasn't confident enough with my game, so I'd wait to make moves, only to realize that after a week ro 2 of it girls would think i was just apuss, and would move on.

I changed that though.

BTW: Don't ask girls out directly. If she likes you enough to want a relationship, she'll bring up the topic.