"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Things that just "always seem to happen"

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The Comeback Kid

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I couldn't think of a name for this post, but I had a question for you guys: Is there always something that seems to happen whenever you are pursuing a girl - as in fate, not anything you do?

Here's mine. Well first, I have never had a girlfriend. But the funny thing is, within the week after I asked the girl I liked out, the girl finds a bf. This has happened at least five time out of the seven times I've asked a girl out.

I don't get why that happens - After I ask the girl I like out and she says no to me, she'll have a boyfriend withing the week (or two) afterwards. Why? Is there a reason to it, or is it just a coincidence? It's not like they go from bf to bf either.

So, there's my example. Any odd things that always seem to happen to you (fate) when pursuing a girl?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yea, I got one. . .

Whenever I have sex, I end up having an orgasm at the end. Its like, no matter WHAT, sex ends with an orgasm. Maybe I'm doing it wrong???? Any tips?

(Sorry, I'm a jerk.)

But to be serious, the only thing that ever happened with me like that is I would come on to a chick, get shot down. Then later I'd find out she'd spent the next few days thinking of me, and wished I'd tried to come on to her again.

I just wasn't persistant enough. I'm really bad at telling if a girl is digging me or not. So that's what that is.

Boo yaa *****es.
 
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This happens in IMHO for a few reasons

1. It gives her confidence she is attractive
2. She probly thought she had a chance with this other guy in thr first place and maybe liked him more, so she didnt want to commit to you if he was still on the table.
3. You just notice it more because it was with you, perhaps 10 guys asker her out the same week you did.
 
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OK, This is going to sound over-confident but I'll throw ALL my stuff down on a girl, and I will think she just isn't in to me... So I act like "Oh well, whatever , her loss"

And I swear to god I'll find out a week later the girl likes me, and we'll usually date :) :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I used to not get hookups from girls. I wasn't confident enough with my game, so I'd wait to make moves, only to realize that after a week ro 2 of it girls would think i was just apuss, and would move on.

I changed that though.

BTW: Don't ask girls out directly. If she likes you enough to want a relationship, she'll bring up the topic.
 
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