"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Things iv'e learned- pass them to all of you

zorg198

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Hello All.

I would like to share what iv'e learned based on the "relationship" i had on the last year.

1. Never ever invest on her more than you invest on yourself. you are the prize!
2. Never ever lose your temper , shows you losing control. always remain calm.
3. Never ever let woman disrespect you! one time is enough- woman are like a child , when u permit them one time you lost the war.
3. Never be insecure around woman!
4. Never take back woman who dumped you.
5. If a girl shows sings of distant , ignoring you and its new , unless someone dies in her family its a red flag!!! back off , go ghost.
6. Never tell a woman what you feel , its a trap to see how you lose your frame.
7. Never ever and i mean ever go back against what you do , walk away and stay strong.
8. Woman who lie to u one time are b1tches to stay away from.
9. If its not going smooth don't try to stay , there are plenty of fish outside.
10. A girl from broken home its a very bad sign my friend , stay away.

There are a lot of things iv'e learned from this experience...i'm hurting now because of this b1tch but i will get strong and continue with my life. Thanks SS for helping me .


Joe.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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great post, and repped.
 
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