"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Things iv'e learned- pass them to all of you

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Hello All.

I would like to share what iv'e learned based on the "relationship" i had on the last year.

1. Never ever invest on her more than you invest on yourself. you are the prize!
2. Never ever lose your temper , shows you losing control. always remain calm.
3. Never ever let woman disrespect you! one time is enough- woman are like a child , when u permit them one time you lost the war.
3. Never be insecure around woman!
4. Never take back woman who dumped you.
5. If a girl shows sings of distant , ignoring you and its new , unless someone dies in her family its a red flag!!! back off , go ghost.
6. Never tell a woman what you feel , its a trap to see how you lose your frame.
7. Never ever and i mean ever go back against what you do , walk away and stay strong.
8. Woman who lie to u one time are b1tches to stay away from.
9. If its not going smooth don't try to stay , there are plenty of fish outside.
10. A girl from broken home its a very bad sign my friend , stay away.

There are a lot of things iv'e learned from this experience...i'm hurting now because of this b1tch but i will get strong and continue with my life. Thanks SS for helping me .


Joe.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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great post, and repped.
 
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