Conscious
Don Juan
I had oneitis before, when I was an AFC. But I think this is different. This time there is solid ground for a relationship.
To make a long story short, there is a girl with a boyfriend of 3 years who goes to college 800 miles away. Recently I've been at the top of my DJ game, and for the last 2 months she has been all over me.
Over the past 3 weeks we've gone out on 3 dates. During each of these dates I give the time of her life. She calls me all the time, always wants to go out and seem me, everyone at school thinks we are a couple, etc. I do everything right, keep phone convos to 5 minutes, keep the DJ mindset, etc. And after our last date she told me how her boyfriend was boring and not fun, “there.. I said it, he is just good for sex everyone once in a while.” And with most other cases, I didn’t let her discuss her boyfriend any further.
Now I firmly believe that she is LTR material. That's what I want with her. And after our last date she wanted to hook up, but I kept my distance because she has a boyfriend.
2 days afterwards the boyfriend came back from college and now is with her all the time. She still makes an effort to talk to me, but I've really cut back talking to her. All of a sudden it just seems so weird between the both of us, like the boyfriend is the elephant in the living room. I really want a relationship from her and I am almost certain she was going to break it off with him, but she seems like a different person after this weekend. She seems almost sad, almost like she misses me. And I’m beginning to feel the same.
So what would be the best path for me to take, the best attitude around her, assuming that I want to stay with it?
To make a long story short, there is a girl with a boyfriend of 3 years who goes to college 800 miles away. Recently I've been at the top of my DJ game, and for the last 2 months she has been all over me.
Over the past 3 weeks we've gone out on 3 dates. During each of these dates I give the time of her life. She calls me all the time, always wants to go out and seem me, everyone at school thinks we are a couple, etc. I do everything right, keep phone convos to 5 minutes, keep the DJ mindset, etc. And after our last date she told me how her boyfriend was boring and not fun, “there.. I said it, he is just good for sex everyone once in a while.” And with most other cases, I didn’t let her discuss her boyfriend any further.
Now I firmly believe that she is LTR material. That's what I want with her. And after our last date she wanted to hook up, but I kept my distance because she has a boyfriend.
2 days afterwards the boyfriend came back from college and now is with her all the time. She still makes an effort to talk to me, but I've really cut back talking to her. All of a sudden it just seems so weird between the both of us, like the boyfriend is the elephant in the living room. I really want a relationship from her and I am almost certain she was going to break it off with him, but she seems like a different person after this weekend. She seems almost sad, almost like she misses me. And I’m beginning to feel the same.
So what would be the best path for me to take, the best attitude around her, assuming that I want to stay with it?
