I've been out with this girl on a few dates. Simply put, the problem is that so far they have been too, um, platonic. I'm probably in danger of getting into ljbf zone. I've tried teasing her and some kino (though I'm really not good at it). Don't get me wrong - the dates are interesting and we have things to talk about. They just haven't moved in the direction that I want. How do I spice things up?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
things cooling off with this girl
- Thread starter MrMarbles
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