"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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things cooling off with this girl

MrMarbles

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I've been out with this girl on a few dates. Simply put, the problem is that so far they have been too, um, platonic. I'm probably in danger of getting into ljbf zone. I've tried teasing her and some kino (though I'm really not good at it). Don't get me wrong - the dates are interesting and we have things to talk about. They just haven't moved in the direction that I want. How do I spice things up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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J Roc

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invite her over your place to watch a movie at night. use kino to warm her up then go for the kill.
 
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