I've been out with this girl on a few dates. Simply put, the problem is that so far they have been too, um, platonic. I'm probably in danger of getting into ljbf zone. I've tried teasing her and some kino (though I'm really not good at it). Don't get me wrong - the dates are interesting and we have things to talk about. They just haven't moved in the direction that I want. How do I spice things up?