I've been out with this girl on a few dates. Simply put, the problem is that so far they have been too, um, platonic. I'm probably in danger of getting into ljbf zone. I've tried teasing her and some kino (though I'm really not good at it). Don't get me wrong - the dates are interesting and we have things to talk about. They just haven't moved in the direction that I want. How do I spice things up?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
things cooling off with this girl
- Thread starter MrMarbles
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