user252009
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So I'm noticing this month that a lot of women are more eager to go on dates etc., between late 20's and early 30's. Anyone else having a similar experience?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thing I'm noticing this January
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CyrusTheGreat
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Most breakups happen from shortly before the Christmas to shortly after the new year. So all those chicks who just dumped the their men have entered the dating scene.
Also so many single women are looking for a guy who's gonna put up with their sh*t and buy them gifts for the Valentine's day, which is fast approaching, lmao.
Also so many single women are looking for a guy who's gonna put up with their sh*t and buy them gifts for the Valentine's day, which is fast approaching, lmao.
SargeMaximus
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I’m not noticing much from my online escapades. It’s been lousy since last year
SW15
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There are always a lot of motivated singles in January. A lot of people are coming off of a lousy holiday season. They might have been completely single and had some rather uncomfortable holiday gatherings with the family. Or there might have been a holiday season breakup.
November 15-January 1 is a bit of a dead zone for arranging dates with new prospects. Women are often too busy to commit to going on multiple dates without gaps in between, often due to her holiday travel schedule or other social commitments. The best types of women for the late year dead zone are the women with mainly local family (within 50 miles of her home).
During January, there are single women also motivated to find a Valentine's Day date.
Some women do the cuffing season thing, get a boyfriend in late October/early November and either drop in early January or drop him right after Valentine's Day. The late February/early March drop is more common than the early January drop.
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November 15-January 1 is a bit of a dead zone for arranging dates with new prospects. Women are often too busy to commit to going on multiple dates without gaps in between, often due to her holiday travel schedule or other social commitments. The best types of women for the late year dead zone are the women with mainly local family (within 50 miles of her home).
During January, there are single women also motivated to find a Valentine's Day date.
Some women do the cuffing season thing, get a boyfriend in late October/early November and either drop in early January or drop him right after Valentine's Day. The late February/early March drop is more common than the early January drop.
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Fortune_favors_the_bold
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I'm your same age and I notice the same.
The funny thing is that they now want to date more while we want to date less.
They feel alone and under pressure due to the macroeconomic environment and the social gatherings while we feel relieved that we have no liabilities while we deal with that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
user252009
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That's exactly my feeling as well
evan12
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in the old days yes, I remember this phenomenon, and my reasoning was many women who count their age get scared that they are older now by one year, and they want to settle especially if they got rejected as they assume that was because of their age.
However, while they are running like chickens to settle, they still carry the same personality that kept them single to this age, so they will just keep "looking".
Solomon
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For me it was Mid 20s to Mid 40s. I went on more dates in Jan than I did in the first 6 months of last year
Something defitnely was in the air, and now I'm back to trying to grind it out
FlexpertHamilton
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All I've noticed is increased attention across the board, especially with women in the college aged range.
Doctor Europeo
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Girls dont wanna be alone on Valentines day.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Now gentlemen, that's a punchline.
I dont know if you mean this specific month or dating in general, but if it's the latter you've described exactly how I feel about it.
And the craziest thing is it works like a charme .