They're always busy man :D

[Guillain]

Hehehe, don't know what's wrong since two week, but every girl that I approached and asked out were "busy" ...

Then I didn't want to ask them out again because I think it's pretty bad to invite a girl when she didn't come in the first place.

There's probably something I'm doing wrong when I'm asking.

Here's what I used:

- "Hey I'm finally free after a busy week, will you join me for 'X activity' tonight?"

-"I don't understand why my bell isn't ringing and how come you're not in front of my door." (This was said over MSN)

-"Hey I haven't seen you in a long time... would be great if we do something saturday"

All of the time I got responses like:
"Omg I'm really sorry a friend is coming over and is sleeping at my house, maybe another time!"

Some bullsh1t excuses like that

And it's not because I wasn't interesting in the first place, because all of theses girls I asked had a great time and a good laugh with me.

What's wrong in my asking? They're always busy, or pretending to be.

 

[Sammo]

Comeon now buddy, face the facts. There not always busy they just arent interested.

If you had done your things right then they would be so attracted you they would cancel any other arrangements to be with you.

Think about it..

 

[Mikelo2k]

The girl may have feeling for you, but seems like you're not on her 'PRIORITY' list.

You need to make HER be the one that's begging with YOU on weekends, not the other way around!

Dont stay stuck on this girl, go find some more prospects

 

[California Love]

do it in person, be more spontaneous, and be more forceful.

 

[Kraken]

Originally posted by Guillain


- "Hey I'm finally free after a busy week, will you join me for 'X activity' tonight?"

-"I don't understand why my bell isn't ringing and how come you're not in front of my door." (This was said over MSN)

-"Hey I haven't seen you in a long time... would be great if we do something saturday"

The first one may come off as you sounding too self important.

The second is basically a cheesy pickup line. Keep it simple. And for god's sake don't use msn to ask a girl out on her first date.

Try a variation on the third, "...it'd be great if we went ________ sometime. When are you free?" They can't really give you any bs like "i'm busy forever", so you'd get a more direct yes/no answer.

When a girl doesn't make a counter-offer after she claims she is busy, she's not busy. She's just not interested.

 

[Guillain]

"Dont stay stuck on this girl, go find some more prospects "

Hehe I asked around 5 girls this week (it's not very much but it wasn't really my goal to ask a lot, I was more focusing on myself)

"Try a variation on the third, "...it'd be great if we went ________ sometime. When are you free?" They can't really give you any bs like "i'm busy forever", so you'd get a more direct yes/no answer."

This is a great answer, it's what I was looking for. "They can't really give you any bs like "i'm busy forever"" That made me laugh

Also, "When a girl doesn't make a counter-offer after she claims she is busy, she's not busy. She's just not interested."

4/5 of the girls that I asked replied: "I'm so sorry, we'll do something another time soon "
I'd reply like : "Yea sure"

I figured out after that 'soon' means nothing. When she says that, it would be the best for me to find a day that we're both not busy so we set up the date right away, but instead I just said "Yea sure". Another mistake that will be fixed next time.

Thank you I'm gonna try this out.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Listen ,LISTEN.



You don't ask for dates . You makes plans...and then you invite her,.

Ex: "There's a thing for at place at a time on a day...why don't you come with me"....


If your good enough you don't even have to date.