Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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They're All on Something

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I agree with most of everything said here but overall I can visualize that a smaller number of babes with decide against taking psycho pharmaceuticals.

There are plenty of women that are not buying the pill lifestyle. The difference is as stark as: doing 0 minutes of research and doing at least 1 hour of research whether or not the pills work or not.

i could be far off and wrong, though I hope not. Not all women are severely low-information researchers. With the internet they know how to dig around for the truths.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A female acquaintance revealed to me that both she and her boyfriend are both on antidepressants. She is taking Lexapro and who knows what he is taking. Her’s is for erratic mood swings and anxiety. Quite frankly I think she‘s BPD/NPD from her childhood. Lo and behold she found a boyfriend who had a fvcked up childhood just like her’s with a mother that abandoned him. He ended up in foster care. Not sure where his dad was, but he also has self-esteem issues from basically being dumped by both of his parents. Both of these people are in their mid 40s. The damage seems physiological permanent. They also drink alcohol on the regular which is not recommended while on SSRIs. The antidepressants seem like a chemical solution to a fundamental problem.

I see this issue as a result of the decline of the healthy family unit. Divorce rates have been on the raise over the past decades and the kids get effected the most. Broken people create more broken people. Men and women are at war with each other in 2023 rather than fulfilling their biological roles. Women have been brain washed to think that they don’t need men while men are seen as toxic for being alive. WTF people? There seems to be a cultural phenomenon to this as well. Cultures that have defined rolls for each gender seem to do better. This is where I see diversity as a double edge sword. Feminism and western ideology is imploding our society. Non-western families where the parents are both respected for their individual rolls seem to do better. When that structure crumbles, people end up with deep seated physiological damage.

And yes, the pharmaceutical machine in the US is the largest drug dealer on the planet. They want you on a prescription because they don’t make money off of healthy people. I still laugh at the notion that the vax had zero side effects. Sugar alone, which is a natural substance has side effects.
 

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I'm yet to date women taking medication or with mental illness. I can't be the only one surely?
 

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I'm yet to date women taking medication or with mental illness. I can't be the only one surely?
I dated one when I was 19. 21 years later still the only one.. once was enough!

I think guys must subconsciously seek damaged women. Probably due to some character flaw or weaknesses.
 

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Maybe its just me?
But personally I never understood why people take mind/feeling numbing chemicals e.g. psycho pharma drugs that makes them feel nothing instead of dealing with their inner demons/issues and improve themselves. Why not get your shyte together and get better with yourself right?
That's what healthy people do. But it's very hard for someone who is not. Doing so takes serious work and continual improvement. It's very hard for these people to look deep inside themselves. Many of the issues are rooted deep and have been for quite some time. Most will need regular counseling to help stay on the right path. And then they tell their counselors half the truth.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can’t forget the vape pens these women be carrying around. I was involved with a 38 year old latina milf two years back and she was addicted to the vape. She carried that pen like a lifeline.
It was infused with THC oil.
I took a few puffs of it and damn that sh1t was potent as hell. I got stoned real quick.
and mind you I have snapped my fair share of packed bowls back in the day.
Really got me thinking this woman must be running on this type of gas, now I can’t imagine how tapped her soul must be.
 

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Sounds like most women just don't know how to be happy, or satisfied. One of the big reasons why they usually file for divorce.
 

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Now that makes no sense,

How can older white women be so depressed? They have equality. They can make their own money. They can sleep with whoever they want. They can vote. They have file for divorce and take half the man’s money. They can get what they want sexually, financially, and physically with the snap of their fingers.

If anyone should be depressed its minority men. They can’t find women to marry.

Those results are rigged.
 

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Now that makes no sense,

How can older white women be so depressed? They have equality. They can make their own money. They can sleep with whoever they want. They can vote. They have file for divorce and take half the man’s money. They can get what they want sexually, financially, and physically with the snap of their fingers.

If anyone should be depressed its minority men. They can’t find women to marry.

Those results are rigged.
Coincidentally, the same age many women are coming into menopause. Despite all these “perks”, women still want attention and validation. Those are like oxygen to women. Realizing they are invisible post wall and that their azz doubled in size. You’d be depressed too if all your power dissolved. Men have to build everything they have. By 45, you should be on your stride and enjoying life.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Now that makes no sense,

How can older white women be so depressed? They have equality. They can make their own money. They can sleep with whoever they want. They can vote. They have file for divorce and take half the man’s money. They can get what they want sexually, financially, and physically with the snap of their fingers.

If anyone should be depressed its minority men. They can’t find women to marry.

Those results are rigged.
Both minority men and White men have issues in the mating market.

I agree with you on older White women. Older White women have a good deal. Plenty of men want to have sex with older White women. White women aren't lacking for sex until well past menopause. I've seen examples of women in their 50s generating a lot of interest in the mating market.
 

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Sounds like most women just don't know how to be happy, or satisfied. One of the big reasons why they usually file for divorce.
Considering they are emotional creatures. I've heard the phrase " they're all crazy" a lot.
 

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Now that makes no sense,

How can older white women be so depressed? They have equality. They can make their own money. They can sleep with whoever they want. They can vote. They have file for divorce and take half the man’s money. They can get what they want sexually, financially, and physically with the snap of their fingers.

If anyone should be depressed its minority men. They can’t find women to marry.

Those results are rigged.
Women are already inherently unstable from a biological perspective. You can't project the male perspective onto women and expect it to make sense.
 

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I'm yet to date women taking medication or with mental illness. I can't be the only one surely?
It's probably because you're not in the US. They have gone overboard with addressing "mental health" by prescribing some pills to just about anyone who says they're "depressed" or "anxious". It's a money grab and big Pharma is taking full advantage of it.

As a minority, I don't know of anyone in my family who takes anything for mental health. We just drink a lot of beer :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's probably because you're not in the US. They have gone overboard with addressing "mental health" by prescribing some pills to just about anyone who says they're "depressed" or "anxious". It's a money grab and big Pharma is taking full advantage of it.

As a minority, I don't know of anyone in my family who takes anything for mental health. We just drink a lot of beer :)
That and no one in your family is spouting off the old "I need to find myself" quack duck line.
 

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Women are already inherently unstable from a biological perspective. You can't project the male perspective onto women and expect it to make sense.
Im not projecting anything. I’m saying you fought endlessly to be equal and treated the same as men. Then you got it. And you are still unsatisfied because it’s not in your biology to want that and be satisfied.

No problem. Then give all your legal rights back. Can’t have your cake and eat it too.
 
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